this boy and i started going out last week and i really like him, but just a few days after, i meet a guy who now i like to. i'm afraid something bad might happen. what sould i do?
2006-09-10 03:55:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't mention your age or dating experience, but it sounds as though you are young and not very experienced with the dating world. Lucky you to be just starting out on this part of your life!!
First, I don't think that you need to worry about choosing one of the guys over the other. You don't have a "type" at this point and you need to learn how to be friends with all types of people and this includes guys. This means see as many different guys as possible. You don't have to choose between them right now. Enjoy the company of lots of different dating partners. That's how you learn what you like and with whom you are comfortable.
Second, keep firmly in mind that friendship must be the first goal in a dating relationship.
Third, if anyone you are dating trys to sell you on the sexual part of dating before you are ready, they are just plain selfish and are dating only to get sex, not to get to know you. These are people you should avoid like the plague!!
Fourth, know your own worth. You are a unique creation of the good God above. You are wonderfully made. Don't sell yourself short. Don't fall for lines, but go with what is right and makes you feel right.
Good luck on your dating future and remember to have fun!! :)
2006-09-10 04:11:47 · answer #1 · answered by Peanut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey just dont jump on conlusions right now .
Take ur time and be ambigous to oth of the guys like dont let em know tht u wanna be in realtionship with him.
And after some time u yourself will find out whos the better one.
So dont worry talk to both of em make freinds with em.
Let the best man win
good luck
2006-09-10 04:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by i_know_style 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to work out whats best for you. Be friends with them both and after seeing what you believe is the best option take it, but make sure you don't hurt any of them as hurt can come back in a fit of rage. Or even better still take yourself of the dating market until you figured out whats best for you. Good Luck luv.x
2006-09-10 04:19:13 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Y! Answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide why you like the guys, whos best for you, if you decide the person you now likes better off and will last and liek you more or whatever tell your current boyfriend your not sure its working out or you will be sayign what if for a very long time! you have to balence it out, dose he like you? and do you think it will last? see what happends jsut dont cheat or you might lsoe them both!
jaz x
2006-09-10 04:00:24 · answer #4 · answered by bunnyjaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a boyfriend then tell the second guy and stop looking. Sounds like you have a lot of growing up to do. Remember it is not nice to play games with other peoples feelings.
2006-09-10 03:59:34 · answer #5 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
relax first because you don't want to mess this one up for either of them. Try your hardest to go with the flow. And figure out which oneyou like best or think is best for you because these do not always go hand and hand. Try to figure out who is worth it and who thinks you are worth it. But don't go crazy and miss out on both of the opportunities. I have been in this situation before you definitely feel like a princess if they are both treating you very nicely.
2006-09-10 04:04:46 · answer #6 · answered by ParisAd0re 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a choice or tell the guys that you want to date and not get serious about one person. Always be careful where you shop!
2006-09-10 03:59:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find ount things about both and choose the best one but don't make the one you date to think you have something really special more than dating!!
2006-09-10 04:08:54 · answer #8 · answered by Elli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the first guy off the hook and go with your instincts. Obviously you weren't totally satisfied with the first guy or you wouldn't have noticed the second guy
2006-09-10 03:59:44 · answer #9 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what if a guy treated you this way? would you like it? i guess not so choose the one that you think is better for you you are not hte only one that has feelings so don't hurt other people!
2006-09-10 04:10:48 · answer #10 · answered by Dreamcaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋