my boyfriend is completely annoying. im in high school and he constently calls me either early in the morning or late at night to scream into the phone stupid stuff. he is always jumping or something. and everytime i tell him to stop he suggests i take a midol! lets just say its like im dating a 4 year old. i cant even talk to my friends about it because all of them are best friends with him. i cant break up with him. but is there anything i can say to tell him to stop it?
please help!
2006-09-10 03:42:32 · 22 answers · asked by JamieLynn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hiya
You don't sound like you are having much fun with him.
Your boyfriend should be supportive, fun, concerned about your feelings. Also you have to love someone because of their annoying little habits not inspite of them. (Mine has a complete melt down everytime something goes wrong with the computer - but i just think its kind of funny )
If hes not lovely and good then why are you going out with him? You cant find someone nice if you are stuck with a 4 year old shouting stupid things in your ear.
Trust me being single is not that bad. You can't be everything that you are capable of until you find out who you are without a boyfriend - especially an annoying immature one.
If your friends don't like you without a boy, they are not your real friends.
Good luck.
2006-09-10 03:48:19 · answer #1 · answered by Bebe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to put up with for a certain amount of time, then start talking to him about it. Guys can react to how the tone of your voice is, if you sound annoyed then he will tell you to "Take a Midol". If you talk to him like you usually do then he might be more reasonable. Plus if you truly like him and he feels the same you could both put something up on the shelf for a while to balance it out.
2006-09-10 03:50:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you worried that breaking up will cause problems between your friends? Don't worry about what they will say...this is your life and if you don't feel comfortable with him then leave him. Let me tell you right now that if he is acting like this he will never grow up and it wont get better either. Dump him now while you can. There are so many other fishes in the sea.
2006-09-10 04:00:36 · answer #3 · answered by lady_bug418 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey this is America you can do whatever you want What about a short term break up just to let him know that you are not going to put up with his antics anymore and maybe once he sees that he will realize that you are serious and realize how stupid he was and he will then change and if not screw it rebate that hook and try to catch another one of those fish in the big blue dating sea dont let people walk all over you like that you can get what you want as long as it is within reason and if not lay low and just enjoy it remember friends are a dime a dozen if they dont like your decision tell them to go to hell also
2006-09-10 03:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by eddie v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to grow up and get a life! Why are you dating a loser like this? It's obvious he's got issues...what do you care if you break up with him. I'd rather have my self respect and dignity than a boyfriend who acts like a complete idiot! Kick him to the curb and find someone normal. I bet all his friends wonder why you're with him because they probably think he's as annoying as you do!
2006-09-10 03:53:18 · answer #5 · answered by occasionallyrowdy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your friends about him like how he is ruining your life like that, calling you early in the morning and late at night. Just break up with him.
2006-09-10 04:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean you can't break up with him? God, would you DROP all the high school politics and just get real for once in your life? Break up, there is absolutely no point in wasting your time with this loser, and you CANNOT change him, haven't you learned that yet? Or must you freaking learn everything by experience?
2006-09-10 03:45:35 · answer #7 · answered by surfinthedesert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You start react in more childish manner, start doing all of the same things at his home and make him fell what you fell, may be after all of these things make him realize or you can start talking about more serious guy in your school and than in jealousy he would change some of his actions.
2006-09-10 03:53:04 · answer #8 · answered by younismari2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull my finger!
Sorry, I couldn't resist. Seriously, guys tend to mature emotionally a little behind girls, so he may grow out of it. If not, be sure to let him know YOU may grow out of HIM.
2006-09-10 03:45:53 · answer #9 · answered by But why is the rum always gone? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the child and go get your self a man, in high school of course.
2006-09-10 03:53:07 · answer #10 · answered by Joe V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋