i have been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months and 12 days and i cheated on him on friday, i was drunk, how do i tell him ive cheated on him (this is a question for my friend as she doesnt have a yahoo account)
2006-09-10 03:42:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you never plan to do that again and he won't find out from someone else, DON'T TELL him at all. Telling him only helps YOU feel better about it, it does nothing for him but hurt him. I think it is selfish to hurt him with that information. If you love him and know you will never do it again. just keep your mouth shut and let it be. If you don't love him, still keep your mouth shut and break up with him.
2006-09-10 03:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by Patty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so common it's becoming sickening!!!
She got drunk and shared her dna with another
guy,and he will no doubt share his with many
others too,and so on and so on,and it's the
main cause of disease and this cycle continues
over and over again. You just can't wash off
all the stinch for some reason? Human dna is
not meant to be shared so often with many
different people,thats why people should stay
true to one another or don't have sex at all.
She needs to tell him or break up,and the
sooner the better!!!!
2006-09-10 10:55:55 · answer #2 · answered by slappingfox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no its hard. but it has to b done, to wipe the slate clean, u tell him that u need to tell him somethin that might hurt him, but u nva wntd 2 do, an that u regret it an wish it never happened. tel him in person - say u cheated an it was a mistake an u were drunk even if thats the truth its nt always good enough. if he loves an trusts u he wil 4give u, i promise. say whats tru 2 ur heart g luck
2006-09-10 10:57:49 · answer #3 · answered by carmen101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack your **** and go on down the road, If you cheated after being together for only 4 months then it isnt going to work out any way,,,,,,,,, give the poor guy a break and just go on about your way
2006-09-10 10:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Preferably on the phone and tell her to tell him she is going out of town for a while. He is going to be upset and say some things more then likely so prepare her for that and hopefully she is willing to forget him because he is gone and will go out for a grudge romp to try and get even with her. But that is the joy of cheating :)
2006-09-10 10:48:40 · answer #5 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would just let sleeping dogs lie, your friend shouldn't worry about the guilt at the moment. She was drunk, and it happened. She doesn't have any emotional attachments to the guy she did whatever with. If she truly digs her current beau, I'd let it slide and not tell him. HOWEVER, if she is attracted to this other guy and wants to see him or whatever, it's time to breakup!!
2006-09-10 10:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt tell him trust me ive been there and done that the only way i would say ne thing is if there is another way he could find out but if not just keep your mouth shut and let it go cuz you will lose him if you tell him or ne one elese does trust me
2006-09-10 10:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by chas 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she tells, the relationship will most likely end. Be regretful and never let it happen again. But if she's guilt-stricken, just tell him face-to-face. Be warned! It's gonna break his heart.
2006-09-10 10:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by Laetishaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You explain the situation and promise that you will watch your drinking and that it will never happen again.
Then mean it. If you do it again, he has the right to walk
2006-09-10 10:46:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him you heard about "swinging" on the internet and see if he wants to try it. Then u are off the hook..
2006-09-10 11:41:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋