i shout too much?

Question

my daughter is one year and five monthes, she's very naughty that she gets on my nerves sometimes i shout , is this harmfull for her, how can i explain to her that she's doing wrong things

Answer 1

kids learn from example. your teaching her how to vent the wrong way. rember kids dont see logic the way a grown up does. she will push every button just to see what you do and what you teach her. its very hard trust me my 2 yr old tries my patance all the time just remember its a stage and a age dont carry a bad habbit into the next one. it will bite you in the butt when she starts yelling back at you.

Answer 2

You definitely need to stop the shouting; that's not helping anything except to make her think that shouting is how to handle things SHE doesn't like.

Create a time-out area and place her there when she does naughty things. Make sure you explain what she did WRONG and how she should do it RIGHT.

Being a good parent is harder than being a bad one. This is the one thing you CAN do the right way that will bring you such great rewards later. Think before you act out. You are the parent, and I know that you must be a good one to come here to seek advice. Good luck.

Answer 3

Shouting is harmful, especially when the feeling behind it is not in the best interests of your child. At this age children are very open, sensitive, vulnerable. How is she naughty, getting into the pot plants, eating off the floor, throwing food? What have other parents done to guide their children? Maybe your child is not really doing anything wrong. Perhaps you are afraid she will hurt herself and call what she is doing naughty. You are the one having the reaction. How can you better handle the situation?

Answer 4

we shout as mums due to the fact that we are tired, run down, fed up you name it......................in reply to your direct question YES it is a bit harmful to her plus trust after a while she will just blank you when you start shouting..........

Are you on your own bringing her up............do you work as well as do it all for her??? If so you sound like you need a break from her.............and how do you mean naughty ??? if you are playing with her and keeping her occupied then how much trouble can she get into............you know idle hands and all that good stuff,

IF what she is doing is dangerous to her self then a gentle tap on back of hands with a couple of fingers makes a loud noise but does not really hurt........if this has no effect then a swat on the butt but you sound like you NEED some you time, look to your family and friends for a small break for you both.

Take care

Answer 5

when you feel the need to shout start counting backwards from 100 . When you calm down, sit your little girl down and tell her what she has done is not nice ( i don't believe in using the word "BAD", it can give the child the idea that they are"bad" when it is their actions that are "bad"). Put her in time-out. ( the only time-out that works on my son is a chair in the middle of the kitchen floor - nothing of interest to look at or want to play with). Remember time-out is only good for a few minutes by age - for your daughters age no more than 3 to 5 minutes. Talk to your child, she is old enough now to understand when things she does are not nice.

Answer 6

If you continue to shout at her she will get used to it and she will ignore you and just keep doing what she is doing. When she is doing something wrong take her hand and sternly tell her "NO" and lead her away from it, and get her involved in another activity. At age 1 she doesn't know what is wrong or right or dangerous and she needs to be taught.

Answer 7

Try putting her in Time Out. That way you both get a cool down period before you explain to her what she has done wrong.

Answer 8

Yes it is harmful. Role modeling and repetition and reward for good behavior.

Answer 9

By a punishment !