i always feel like im on my own all the time i dont trust anyone i have a lot of probloms i cant deal with and tend to run away and keep running im always on my own and cant handle it any more i need advice and quick before i run again cos im on the verge of doing it again and i dont really want to im 27 and my heads so messed up i cant even think ive tried counsiling and it dont work i cant talk to them is there anyone i can talk to or am i just a hopeless case like i think i am any help would be great thanks love smiler xxx
2006-09-10 03:34:26 · 16 answers · asked by the baron 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Smiler, You can always talk to me if you want to, all my mates and family come to me when they have a problem, My job is a support worker and I try to help all kinds of people in different situations. You can I.M me at kjd2382 (yahoo) or kelly2382@hotmail.co.uk Hope this will help hun xx we all need someone we can talk to xx (Ive felt like this alot of times before for different reasons so maybe I can understand-Idont wanna speak to you in a professional way, thats not what I mean-I could just be a mate that you need right now.)
2006-09-10 03:38:30 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly D 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can always contact me. I'd like to think that Im a good listener and I have been in a similar situation, so I have a rough idea of what you're going through. Everybodys experiences are different, but there are always genuine people out there to help you.Do the brave thing......contact someone who will listen and you're halfway there.Take care of yourself and remember you're a very special person. xx
2006-09-10 03:58:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right that if you don't feel like you can trust anyone, seeing a shrink won't help you just yet. You should find a friend or two online to talk to -- you're not seeing this person face-to-face, so you may feel more that you can talk to them. (I sometimes find myself able to tell near-strangers things that I can't tell my own family, for example.) That can healp you learn to open up to people enough to seek counselling, which is what you need to help you with your inability to trust people and to deal with whatever it is in your life that you feel like running from.
2006-09-10 03:41:27 · answer #3 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont trust anybody then I would have said talk to a counsellor as they are usually impartial, but you already said you tried this. What about the samariatans? I dont know what your issues are, but if its to do with something like a crime having happened to you, what about victim support? Try going to your doctor, they may be able to put you in touch with someone. Good luck
2006-09-10 03:39:10 · answer #4 · answered by Charley G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how alike our situations are,but,my cousler has helped me alot. He has opened my eyes to what i do and why i do them. I think that if you don't understand why you run then you can't fix it. I run because i get what i want them i push people away,so they change. then i blame it on them and i run.I push and run. So i'm working on that. Just know that somewhere out there, somebody else is feeling the same way you are. Hugs,and i hope you can find a way to control it.
2006-09-10 04:08:52 · answer #5 · answered by luvy7e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is it ur running from.....if u just open up a little bit for someone to help u, because at the end of the day its no good hoilding it in, a pronblem shared is a problem solved, and at the end of the day every one has there demons so dont think ur on ur own!!!!!!!!
2006-09-10 03:42:19 · answer #6 · answered by MissElection 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Smiler, never think your hopeless. You are a very sensitive person and that today is very special. If you would like to email me please feel free to do just that. Please remember Smiler that you are never alone and you always have us as friends.
2006-09-10 03:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by bobbi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you have to try seeing a bunch of different therapists before you find one you feel you can really work with.
2006-09-10 03:46:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out there and find someone you can talk to. Councillors tend to be a bit crap...but try a healer or someone who does reiki.....it helps....believe me I know.
Good luck hon
xxxx
2006-09-11 12:56:58 · answer #9 · answered by Honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Dude, I heard about this site called yahoo360 you can go there and talk and ask questions and answer some. its great!
2006-09-10 13:35:40 · answer #10 · answered by Kamran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋