Ok so, theres this guy that I like tremendously. All the signs are there when we talk. Smiling, eyecontact ect. BUT he is a super shy guy. It took me a long time to get where I am with him and I dont wanna ruin anything that we already have. I want to go to homecoming with him. BUT I dont know how to ask him. I was thinking maybe I could hang out with him, and when the time felt right, I could ask him. Im not sure. I REALLY NEED HELP!!? Any ideas on this?! How do I ask him to hang out? What should we do? How will I ask him to homecoming?
2006-09-10 02:48:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want to be with a shy guy you have to take all the steps to starting a relationship. First you might try just chatting about his weekend plans. If he says hes not doing anything then maybe try asking him to hang out with you and a couple friends. Make sure to do something he might enjoy. If he declines then simply say that the offer is still open. Make sure to keep contact with him every chance you get, show that you are interested and maybe bring up the fact of home coming, but don't make it known right away that you want to go with him. Guys are simple minded and sometimes the shy ones scare easy. Go with the flow and don't try to push yourself onto him right away.
Good luck :)
2006-09-10 02:56:40 · answer #1 · answered by upsidedown1783 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you have a problem.i just what to say is that i had the same problem. about tell the guy that i like him. and i didn't no how to tell him because i keep it from he for 31/2 year i write him a note but now i am think that i should of told him in person cause he did not tell me what he think. so what i am trying to tell you is that tell him in person.not by a note.
PS good luck.......
2006-09-10 10:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by fliersgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so easy just find out what he likes and ask him do something concerning that.
2006-09-10 10:18:55 · answer #3 · answered by Wahenie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look u have to be able to wait as long as u can.coz with time he'll stop being extra shy.
then u can comfortably talk and ask him anything u want!
right?
2006-09-10 09:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by Musty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him casually..noncholanlty..like you just think he's a great guy to bring to homecoming ;)
2006-09-10 09:52:10 · answer #5 · answered by vicci 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find some pretext. It could be anything. Call him home and ask him.
2006-09-10 09:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no other way but just to ask him. read tip on dating and more on this site
2006-09-10 09:50:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Promise him the honey if you two go.
2006-09-10 10:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by steak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him and if he ses no just be cool with it and then he may ask you for being understanding
2006-09-10 09:54:16 · answer #9 · answered by l40c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask it that simple!
2006-09-10 10:24:28 · answer #10 · answered by cookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋