So i broke up with my gf last thursday, and i'm really down...all i think is about her....is it anyway to make this easier?
2006-09-10 02:37:18 · 23 answers · asked by Noveau 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
make yourself busy with something else... work or studies
2006-09-10 02:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by simplyme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time may be a healer, but it certainly is no beautician.
Well why did you break up with your girlfriend if all you think about is her? Do you both like and love her that much?
Well open up your eyes. Look around for other pairs of hot legs.
Preferably belonging to a nice girl.
Go find some single male buddies, and single female buddies to hang out with. Play some games with them to make you happy, preferably those that need strategy so that you take your mind off your ex-girlfriend.
Don't go for the bottle. Bad idea. Just be sober and you will find your one true love. Maybe not the next try but all the best.
Go hug somebody. Preferably a nice girl too. With hot legs.
2006-09-10 09:43:14 · answer #2 · answered by lkraie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What could possibly cause the break up if you still feel for her? First of all, sorry to hear that. But if both of you really have to be apart for the time being at least, then just try to make the best out of a situation. Do things that you can't do when you are in a relationship.
If you do miss her, just let her know but keep it low key. There's nothing wrong with letting another know how you feel cos if you don't then she'll never know.
Hope things work out for you!
2006-09-10 10:39:01 · answer #3 · answered by Laetishaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like LOVE troubles to me.
It takes a very long time to forget...
But do not let Yourself down. Try to
find other people, fresh friends, fresh
faces. Other places, other spaces.
So it is easier to forget.
Normally — if You were really
in love — it takes years to forget ----
Sorry. Sounds very hard, but it is
the truth. So go out and chance a bit.
Good luck.
2006-09-10 09:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time really doesn't heal. Time helps you gain perspective which helps but a hurt will remain. Drugs and alchohol can make you feel better but obviously thats a bad road. You just have to suck it up and suffer like everyone else.
2006-09-10 09:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by Scott L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, just remember that it will take only 21 days to come to terms with this and to develop a new attitude. In the meantime, find something that really occupies your attention, like learning Sanscrit.
2006-09-10 09:39:26 · answer #6 · answered by Ever Learn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the question should be why did you break up if it is so hard. And you've heard people say to the ones they love they have a piece of there hearts. A piece is missing when your no longer with the one you love.
2006-09-10 09:40:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with your friends and tell them how you feel about the break up. I'm sure they will be willing to give you a shoulder to cry on
2006-09-10 09:41:35 · answer #8 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as u said time is the cure. i think if u were a normal person u'll need between 1-3 months and u'll be fine.
if u can't live without her then just go back to her.
2006-09-10 09:41:06 · answer #9 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea try and get back together with her that'll work or try and get another gf that has worked for me a million times
2006-09-10 09:39:12 · answer #10 · answered by Josh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First. You will survive. Live and learn from this, these experiences develop and strengthen us, make us understand emotional pain and eventually will make us a better person.
2006-09-10 09:40:29 · answer #11 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋