wot wood that be.?? mine wood be to help my mum overcome her depression which seems worse since the loss of her only younger brother, who was also a father to me. he was 54.
2006-09-10 02:30:39 · 27 answers · asked by ANgEL 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
im gonna extend as i can c, that no one has a purfect life were all in the same kinof boat afer all.
2006-09-10 02:42:41 · update #1
Thats cute of u ALAN Q. i TRY MY BEST. although many just dont understand me
2006-09-10 02:44:31 · update #2
neo griff to true. i wood 2 u know.
2006-09-10 02:56:02 · update #3
selina THANKS.
2006-09-10 02:56:42 · update #4
And for every bodys info. i can spell, its just i dont wanna 2 ok.
2006-09-10 02:58:06 · update #5
made mistake my mum is younger not older..
2006-09-14 08:58:25 · update #6
I believe that no one has everything in life..
My answer to your question would be. to have a second chance to change my past. i really wish that could happen..
. Wishing you the very best for your mother, hope she will find the light at the end of a long tunnel. good luck
2006-09-10 05:13:47 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hi, firstly im sorry about your mum's depression, help her if you can by spending time with her, take her out and keep her busy so she can rebuild her life after the loss of her brother. I am still grieving for my mum who passed away six years ago but with time it does get slightly easier and now i remember her for her all the positive reasons i.e how much she loved me etc..... secondly I found the response by 'neogriff' very sarcastic in which she reffered to your spelling.. ok some people cannot spell so well but we are here to answer questions and not to criticise each other espeically when such a sensitive question is being asked.
finally if i could change anything in my life, it would be to have my mum with me still.... take care. god bless.x
2006-09-10 02:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by sonia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Changing things in one's life means that the rest of my life would be altered. Rather than changing things, which is the option of least investment, I would want to change nothing, and approach life differently to look into the future, and try to understand how I can reach that goal based on what I have to work with in this very moment.
Your Mom's depression, though sad, and I know the problem well, is not something that you can change. You can encourage her to do things for herself, but because of her depression, it won't register with her. You need to learn how to best protect yourself in order to make some difficult choices for your mother's well-being. Good luck with that!
2006-09-10 04:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by fabmaster6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots but to hell with it ....I'll think about that tomorrow.... as Scarlett O'Hara would say.
Your poor mum. I was so sad a couple of years ago. I had just lost my mum and needed loving and hugs and just someone to be there for me ...and there were a lot of people there for me, but the one I most wanted to be there for me let me down. I used to sit in the garden crying when I was alone and talk to my mum and tell her how lonely I was. Then one day a little cat came in. She adopted me and I would talk to her and play with her and you know it may sound silly but I think she helped me to get over my deep sadness. I didn't go to the doctor about being depressed because I had had enough of hospitals and worked through it myself. About a year down the line I found myself in hospital with a heart problem which I think was the result of the stress I had endured before my mum died . because I was feeling really low then, and also the hurt felt when the one I most depended on let me down. He still does just when I need him most. Now I couldn't give a fig about how things are going to work out. I will do my best to live life and try to help as many as I can along the way.
Wouldn't it be lovely to meet a wonderful loving man who would not mind that I will probably be on meds for the rest of my life, or that I do not have a career because I spent my life taking care of my family. One who would encourage me to write that book, or start that shop on Ebay. And tell me that I am not too old to start over.
The young people on here will probably be mad because of notes like this, but listen darlings have your fun on here but just allow the older lot a little time to send love. I would not be here if I had somewher else to go right now. Later tonight maybe but not now.
Give your mum a hug for me .I will remember her with good thoughts every day. She will be alright.
2006-09-10 03:09:06 · answer #4 · answered by Learner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would fight for a cure to childhood, all cancers
I would want to not have suffered from a brain tumor
I would want my memory back (look above)
I would want more friends that I can go out with on the weekend and maybe weekdays
I would want a girlfriend
I would want a job
I would want some kind of surgery to correct my eyes, and stop me from wearing glasses
I would want to know more about life
I would want to lose some weight and work out to get muscular
I would want to get a new SUV and be able to 'customize' it
I would want to warn someone about their cancer that I knew
2006-09-10 03:30:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd not... questioning about it now. each thing thats occurred, sturdy and undesirable has occurred for a reason. going back an replacing something may propose i might want to come back and favor to modify a million different issues about my new self... If it aint damaged.. do not fix it ;0) What i might want to favor to do is bypass back and prevent threat free victims of crime with the help of intervening before any badness ever befell.
2016-11-25 23:28:54 · answer #6 · answered by mccuistion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have reported my grandad for beating me up as a child. Everyone has regrets and you sound like you are there for your mum. If she gets some antidepressants from the GP they will help her to get a prospective on things. I don't see this as a regret....you are doing your very best by her xx
2006-09-10 02:39:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in my personal life i wouldnt change anything,, God has set forth all the things in my life that are meant to be the way they are,, although there are many things i could ask to have changed, but it just wouldnt be the way its supposed to be,, everything that happens,, happens for a reason, this i do believe and i just could not imagine doing things differently,, God has given to me and he has taken away from me but all in all i wouldnt change a thing,, if ya was asking this question about something in the world i could change then the list would be to long to write on here,
2006-09-10 10:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by SPACEGUY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have been better with money all those years ago!
Ps...you can still help your mum with love, support and understanding. Its nice to see someone give a crap about depression.
2006-09-10 02:36:27 · answer #9 · answered by Sus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never had any regrets in my life and have always treated ups and downs equally as both tend to balance themselves out. I have loved the life I led before I got cancer and love the life post cancer. I have lived life to the hilt and have loved loved every moment of it.
2006-09-10 18:58:08 · answer #10 · answered by caprichoso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋