I am a senior in High School, with 2 girls who want to date me. I don't have any gripes about either of them, but its hard for me to choose. One of them, Girl 1, is a devout Christian girl who believes in abstinence, like me. She is very well-liked and very kind, but I feel as though she is more of a sister to me than a girlfriend, and I feel awkward looking at her any different. The other girl, Girl 2, is an extremely outgoing, easy to talk to ball-of-fun. The problem is she is very hot-and-cold, one minute she likes me the next someone else. She has broken my heart twice before but I feel so natural being with her. She has everything I think that I want. Who do I choose and why? Thanks for the help...it's much appreciated.
2006-09-10 02:29:43 · 12 answers · asked by Kirk B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, if you choose Girl 2 you will get your heart broken again. There is no doubt about that because I am Girl 2 (not actually but her personality sounds like me). She likes you, your presence probably your jokes but you dont really do it for her. Thats why sometimes your fun and she wants to be around you and other times shes looking at the guy behind you. These girls are more fun yet dangerous, thats why guys are so attracted to these girl. In the end, you will end up with Girl 1. You guys have more in common, you get along great, and the brother/sister relationship will so change into something else. Maybe not your senior year but in the future after you graduate from college.
The only question is who do want to spend more time with? The girl that will break your heart or your sister? This is a touchy choice cause believe it or not, it will change your life forever. Feel free to email me for any more questons.
2006-09-10 02:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Date Girl Number 1.
You might not see her as a girlfriend, but if she loves you than it might be a little awkward to be friends with her, knowing she really likes you.
Girl number 2 sounds fun, but I wouldn't want to make the mistake of dating her for the third time if she's just going to turn around and slap you in the face. I'd just be friends with her.
2006-09-10 02:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by iBrooke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl 2 sounds fickle to me and once bitten twice shy as they say. Girl 1 sounds like the better choice, if both of you agree on the same issues and are friends. Your both young and unless your thinking of marriage right now I'd rather date someone who is my friend and will treat me as I would treat them and not have to wonder if I was going to get the hot-cold treatment tonight
2006-09-10 02:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl 1. She'll love you more. She's the best choice. The other one may dump you again. Show to her she's not the only girl in the world.
2006-09-10 02:33:41 · answer #4 · answered by firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kirk, no one can choose it for you. You have to choose it yourself. It's your life, you knows what is best for you. Choose your true love, because love is not something you want to play with. Hear what your inner heart says. Listen closely. With whom do you feel most comfortable with? Who makes you feel like a superhero? Whom do you want to do anything for?
I hope you can make the best choice for yourself. I don't have any right to choose for you. It's your life, your decision. Good luck.
2006-09-10 02:47:47 · answer #5 · answered by unquenchablethirst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl nr 2 doesn't deserve u.go for girl nr 1 but ask her first if she likes u as a boyfriend not just a friend.if she says yes it will feel more natural being with her.good luck!
2006-09-10 02:37:42 · answer #6 · answered by dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing I can tell you is to follow your heart...Your heart has the answers, that we sometimes don't understand, but it does have the answer..Maybe, niether is the one for you..You are still very young, you have plently of time to find the one for you...
2006-09-10 03:03:38 · answer #7 · answered by shay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look,u should choose the one u imagine urself with in the future.
u know,think about it serious. but if u r not then choose the one who u can feel having fun with...
2006-09-10 02:35:09 · answer #8 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for girl no.1
2006-09-10 02:33:35 · answer #9 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like neither one of them are for you.the christian you dont see as a girlfriend, so dont try, and the other is too flakey, you wont be able to fully trust her
2006-09-10 02:32:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋