im a nice fella im not ugly i have a gsoh im in luton im 50 but look younger dont drink much i like bootsales eating out all sorts tried all sorts of dating sites but only get time wasters or they the woman only want sex i want to build a relationship bit of romance im lost really dont know wat 2 do
2006-09-10 02:19:39 · 26 answers · asked by tangoghost 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-10 02:20:39 · answer #1 · answered by ĵōē¥ → đ 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well look at the positives, if they only want sex at least they're attracted to you ?
Are they going through second childhood stages, if so why don't you, go out and enjoy yourself. Maybe they see you as too serious. Don't have to be settling down unless you still want kids etc.
There are so many people within an hours striking distance of Luton, London + northern home counties must have 10-15 million. Luton's not small but what about Milton Keynes, Watford, Hemel Hempstead, St Albans, Stevenage, Dunstable, Northhampton. You can prob reach midlands in just over an hour (Birmingham etc).
With this variety what are you waiting for. Too picky ?? The odds are also more for you as a male gets older. My Granddad who was a little older than you, granted when he became single again (early sixties), he was a widower and took 3 years to date again but he soon had a number of women who he dated (his merry widows he used to call them), he had a big choice. He ended up marrying one almost 20 years his junior and is happily married now at 89.
Good luck and keep those eyes open, join clubs, why not develop some new interests.
2006-09-10 02:37:23 · answer #2 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel lost just cause you don't have a girlfriend. Luton is pretty cosmopolitan place in England, so you're bound to be able to expereince different cultures and maybe its hard to get a perfect match. But I definately think its worth waiting for. If you're wanting to base the relationship on trust and friendship then you head is in the right place. Maybe you could join a club/group of pleople who do a hobby that you enjoy, and if you make a lot of female friends if they're worth having as a romantic partner then things will work out for you. I'm single at the moment, (though not quite 50, but that's not the point) I'm keeping myself busy with hobbies and a degree so maybe if you concentrate on your personal development at work and start to feel more confident about yourself you'll not seem to be "waiting" all the time. I read an article that said that the most attractive thing about a girl/boyfriend is confidence. If you walk into a social setting and really do have confidence in yourself, then you'll get attention. Remember though that you want to attract the right sort of people not "time wasters." Maybe you could search areas for carboot sales that you've never been before and walk around the stalls and chat to the other lady sellers or something, just don't be cheesy and then everything will go fine. But I'm sure things will work out well. All the best and in the meantime, love yourself plenty with a good lifestyle and fresh approaches to the dating life! All the best! :) MAY THE BEST GIRL WIN!! P.S. I don't drink loads either, so I recommend going to coffee shops about 11:00 on your own and sitting close to a single girl. She might give you some tips! All my single mates (females) go to coffee shops when they're alone and want to unwind, they'll be approachable so long as you go slow!!
2006-09-10 02:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by bebop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think perhaps you are trying to hard. It's probably best to try a singles night but be relaxed and try not to be to eager. If you meet someone you are interested in dont state straight away that you are after a long relationship, just date and see how things go.
As you like bootsales try to be a regular and get to know some of the other regulars, just strike up banter with them, talk about what you know, and get to know them in an easy relaxed way. You may not find a relationship this way but you may get some new friends who in turn may have some single friends.
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2016-05-13 00:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of going to websites looking....go out more...dont go to the places you usually frequent, go somewhere new, like a place for singles (50 something) take u a hobby and join up with some kind of community set up...theres alot of men your age in the same situation, going on websites is ok but meeting someone for real is better, when you see someones profile on a website, it's usually not the truth anyway....good luck
2006-09-10 02:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by shellysnapz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shut down your computer and go meet your local women. Church, senior citizens, coffee houses. Book stores are especially good because you can stalk the women browsing in the sections you like, such as art, history, baseball, whatever. Do not wear cologne!
2006-09-10 02:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of time it is simply down to luck, there are good ones out there, maybe persiverence is the key. Dont get too down about it or it will affect your confidence. Good luck anyway!
2006-09-10 02:27:05 · answer #9 · answered by Darren S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear the right shoes and polish them honest!!. some women can tell a lot about you, its the shoes you wear, Dont ask me why, but a friend of mine always looks at a guys shoes, so dont go out in trainers or cheap shoes off the market!
2006-09-10 03:05:26 · answer #10 · answered by kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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