I have been dating this guy for a while now and up to this point have been very happy with him. Lately I have been having second thoughts because he has poped the question on me. I really love him but in a way im also scared of him. I moved in with him for selfish reasons of my own and i feel it might be a mistake. I have been talking to a friend of mine that seems to think that Iv made a bad mistake. But I dont know if i should listen to him because he cares, or the fact he cares too much and would like to see me with him instead.
Im scared to make the wrong decision with love. Im being pulled in every direction and i dont know what to do. Does anyone have any suggestions?
2006-09-10 02:15:36 · 6 answers · asked by upsidedown1783 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get with a girl. Have a wild night of passion and then step back and work out what you want from life. Then persue that. Ultimately with any choice you make in a person for the rest of your life you will have it's pros and cons. The important thing is that you have the tenacity to stick with your decisions and make them work. Choose the guy with home that will be easiest. :)
2006-09-10 02:39:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to listen to yourself and not rely on what other people tell you. In the end, the decision will be yours.
If you aren't ready to make that commitment, don't and if the man loves you, he will not pressure you.
Maybe some counselling will help you.
2006-09-10 09:18:33 · answer #2 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sit down with him and explain how you feel about things. have a real discussion to work thing sthrough and made an informed decision
2006-09-10 09:17:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need a break from any man. You need to feel comfortable with you and your ability to make your own decisions. Please consider a break from this man, and live on your own for a long while before you live with a man again. It will change you.
2006-09-10 09:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by mettaraine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only answer is to talk and clarify at an appropriate time which you should manage.
2006-09-10 09:18:52 · answer #5 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make up ur mind girl!! follow ur heart do what ever makes you happy.!
2006-09-10 09:29:25 · answer #6 · answered by bonita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋