i really need help with this....Theres this guy who is in one of my classes and i like him alot we flirt all the time and we have alot in comon but i hear alot of girls like him and the hard part is i found he has a girlfriend and they have been going out for quit sometime...what should I do I really like him but i dont wanna hurt him and his girlfriend...plzz help
2006-09-10 01:57:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I suggest you let him go, and you find someone else. I know it's painful Hazel, but in the long run it's the best thing to do. I know you'll find someone else to be with. Good Luck to you.
2006-09-10 02:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a lasting forever thing. So take your time. and no rush. Boys look at 2 things, prettiness and good personality. You know what pretty is. Good personality is the way u act and speak and how u behave yourself, also how u conduct yourself. They often look for good qualities. This is quite a tough area to improve. In other words, if they like u, means they really like u. If not, then maybe there's still a chance u can improve. All the best to u.
2006-09-10 09:01:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should leave him alone just be friends. he has a girlfriend and just let him get on with it. people say flirting is nothing but if his girlfriend finds out she will be hurt. just let him be and go and find some one free and single then you can have all the fun u want
2006-09-10 09:13:02 · answer #3 · answered by midge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way u say, the guy is quite happening there, but remember, you do like him, but may be you are made for someone else. dont you feel someone might be thinking the same for you, keep your options open until u are commited, and trust me you cant be a good friend to him until u find your guy, so stop trying to act as one. dont search for something new, but do wait till it comes.
2006-09-10 09:14:48 · answer #4 · answered by boy_firefly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bow out gracefully is the best thing. Don't be someone who wrecks a relationship, it links you forever with the damage. Stay in touch, and if the timing is right in the future (you're both single) let him know your true feelings.
2006-09-10 09:07:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say it but I'd bow out gracefully. I know how it is to like someone sooo much but you can't come between him and his girl. If he really likes you then he will ditch her on his own. Don't be the ***** of it and come between them. Remain his friend and always be there for him. Be there like the female best friend who he runs to when she's being a *****. You never know but it may take time. Again...time to bow out and "just be there".
2006-09-10 09:01:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing you can do...just keep doing what you are doing and also pick a new guy for the mean time... if he is flirting back then he knows you like him. Just wait for him do break up wiht his girl and then come to you. Don't be the one to break them up though or his gf will be pissed
2006-09-10 09:06:21 · answer #7 · answered by knightimefun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take his flirting as a sign. He is a flirt, and that is it. You should like him as a friend and move on to someone, who is not such a flirt, and would pay attention to you. I view flirting as a sign of cheating...and this is only my opinion.
2006-09-10 09:04:44 · answer #8 · answered by mettaraine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hazel, I would try to look for someone that is'nt taken yet. Keep swimming in the Sea of love.
2006-09-10 09:00:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a SPACE and keep friendship alike others mates. Either he will be yur close friend yur wll get the answer.
2006-09-10 09:02:11 · answer #10 · answered by Rohit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋