Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year now but nothing is really happening. I have kissed her on the cheek but never on the lips. She is very shy and I'm usually comfertant but im really nervous around her. I think she is thinking the same thing. Can any girls out there tell me what its like in her shoes?
2006-09-10 01:44:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she really is uncomfortable then she will be relieved that youre not doin anything more. but if you're misinterpreting her feelings as frustration, then do something soon.
it totally depends on what age you are and what your circumstances are. if you truly feel uncomfortable doing anything more with her then i would suggest sitting down and asking yourself some serious questions like 'is she really the one for me' and make sure you're not in the relationship for the wrong reasons.
if you do truly love each other then there is no reason that the relationship cant go futher. why not try creating a romantic atmosphere that will relax the both of you and let a kiss happen naturally. the more that you stress over this, the more uncomfortable it will be and she will be able to sense that. also, if you have been going out for this long, why not try just talking to her about your feelings, girls appreciate honesty.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-10 02:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by x_shai_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be waiting for a passionate kiss as well. I'm a pretty shy person when it comes to this stage. Let me share my experience and see whether it helps you. Before anything ever happen for me and a guy, I'd usually imagine what its like. And when we are together, I do look forward to the happening but I'll just wait for him to initiate. when it doesn't..I feel a little disappointed but would look forward to next meeting in hope that things might happen.
If possible, try not to pop that question, "Can i kiss you?" things like that, if she's shy like me i doubt you'll get an afirmation. When the ambience and feeling is right for both of you, you'll know. Alternatively, create a dim-lit environment where both of you would be very close to each other..to the extend of hearing each others' breathings. Hmm then let the moment flow naturally...
Good Luck!
2006-09-10 09:19:29 · answer #2 · answered by Laetishaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've sort of been in this position before. There isn't much I can say. I felt that the relationship was at a standstill and wasn't going no where because each of us were to afraid. I guess I was always waiting on the guy to make the first real move because I was too shy. I hope that helps some...
2006-09-10 08:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I went out with a boyfriend for a year and he didn't try to touch me, I would honestly assume he was gay. First I would make a move to be sure though. But, I might be assuming you're older than you really are. You should be comfortable around your girlfriend though, age asside!
2006-09-10 08:49:45 · answer #4 · answered by nevermind_my_id 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out one evening together and drink something. Some glasses of wine can help you to laugh and get closer to each other. You don't need to be drunk, but a little alcohol can help a lot in this situation.
2006-09-10 08:53:28 · answer #5 · answered by Adriana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you both aren't confidant ppl or something would have happened by now, i think you should get to know eachother as friends first so that you are more comfortable in eachothers company.
2006-09-10 08:48:01 · answer #6 · answered by missy minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to this question really depends on how old you are.
2006-09-10 08:46:40 · answer #7 · answered by tmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be patient and show your sincerity, i think both of you should talk more about yourself and let each other understand the other better.
2006-09-10 08:47:52 · answer #8 · answered by FairGround 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chemistry not matching...!! choose another sexy one..!!
2006-09-10 08:55:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋