I have been seeing a man since last November. We were getting into a serious relationship....even talking about moving in together....but now I've had a change of heart. What is the best way to break up with him? This is going to crush him.
2006-09-10 01:37:50 · 18 answers · asked by Joanne 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry this is'nt working out. I want to go in another direction. I just don't feel complete in this relationship. I don't want to hurt you but I'm moving on with my life. Good Luck God Bless
2006-09-10 01:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by blank 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just be honest with him. Fortunately for you, you HAVEN'T moved in yet... this will be easier for you both. You need to just get your courage up, go to a quiet public place (not his house, it will be too "his turf"). Tell him you really like and respect him, but you need to be honest to yourself and that right now he is just not the one for you. Believe me, honesty is the best policy. It will be hard for you to get the words out (depending on your personality), but you will feel really relieved afterward. Try to focus on something else when you finally do it, b/c you may feel a bit depressed as well. You will feel better about yourself. It's your life, you are the only one who can make the decisions. Good luck!!
2006-09-10 08:46:40 · answer #2 · answered by Blue22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty .. be honest with him, face to face
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-10 08:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u really care for him, but not love him, then make him leave u, say, make him like or get attracted to another girl, be unavailalble for a while when u do that, hope will work out if he not strong enough.
2006-09-10 08:42:18 · answer #4 · answered by boy_firefly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about what you are feeling and why you have a change of heart and just be truthful with him.
2006-09-10 09:02:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why to break with a man yu had serious relationship!! Rather take SPACE......................this will not crush him.
Enjoy yur new bf
2006-09-10 08:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by Rohit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no best way as it is all bad but necessary. The longer you wait to harder it gets.
2006-09-10 08:42:31 · answer #7 · answered by irishlad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be brutal and crush him. It's a lot better than stringing him out.
2006-09-10 08:40:16 · answer #8 · answered by foogill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur looking for da BEST way 2 break up wid him...
has there ever been a BEST way through which u break up & other person doesnt gets hurt..if they really cared for u ??
there isent...
da person has 2 get hurt...so y u care bout whether its gonna crush his heart...liver or brain...
u wanna be out of it...den move on...
but if he really cared for u...& u think u can find sme1 better den him..only den take ur decision...but wat if u leave him..n end up wid sme 1...worse...
wat wud u den ?? 1 word ::: regret...dats all...
think of wat u wanna do
2006-09-10 09:08:40 · answer #9 · answered by moooooooovin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel . It will be hard and maybe he will understand. It may hurt , but for the best
2006-09-10 09:01:00 · answer #10 · answered by hotrdcars9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋