SOME BACKGROUND: let's say ur casual 28yo guy. for last 1,5 year you was in very intensive touch with married woman (virtual, never have meet at real). it was not banal affair - you both were in love and hopes. then she finished with you for reason that she not feel full trust to you and can't manage double life anymore - she returnes to her family and duties. you got it hard, but accepted. then, like a month over without any contact. Probably you still have feelings to her, but you also feel hurt. You are too proud to contact her and you afraid to make a hurt to her.
THE QUESTION: if it'd be you - what you would like happen then? would you prefer total disconnection forever OR would you like to hear from her? if you want hear from her - in which manner (friendly letter or ask to return together)? would you being busy with what she feels and what is she doing? they were extremelly connected to each other. please, i ask for as many opinions and detailed answers as you could.
2006-09-10 01:20:20 · 9 answers · asked by Angie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on
2006-09-10 01:37:34 · answer #1 · answered by want2wild 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Out of respect for her decision to live her life, I'd let it go and move on. In time things may change and she may come back, but if she does have a family then they should come first if that is possible. An occasional "hello, things are going well, I'm happy" kind of message would be nice to hear, but that might not help the situation at all.
2006-09-10 08:28:09 · answer #2 · answered by Nc Jay 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude she is a married woman(If you can call her a woman.) you was her boy toy, that all. can't you see the sign. She was wrong in the first place, By cheating on her husband. you do not need it. What if you was in her shoes?? Run fast, and do not miss with her again, No phone call, letters, nothing. Leave Her The F*** Alone, Bad News,Think about her kids if she has any, Do you want her kid/s to be taking away from her be cause of YOU!!!!! Do you want her kid/s to hate her and you????? Think with your head (Upper head, not the one below).
2006-09-10 08:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Total disconect. Seeing or talking to her is just hoping to get it going again and why would you want to be the responcible for distroying a family
2006-09-10 08:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by Doc Phil 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um i wuld like ask her on a date and um like see if she would get back together sk8ters rule yeh man blink 182
2006-09-10 08:25:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's why they call it calling it off
take the hint she doesn't want you...
get over it
2006-09-11 06:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has ended it move on,
2006-09-10 08:29:21 · answer #7 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop it and get on with your life!
2006-09-10 08:23:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hard
2006-09-10 08:23:36 · answer #9 · answered by carendawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋