i have a dad, we get on alright. The problem is im getting married next year and i dont know who to choose to take me down the isle. my step dad has brought me up and has been great. but i dont want to offed my dad. what shall i do?
2006-09-10 00:54:50 · 10 answers · asked by Beaulieu 03 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
That is a tough one .. I can see why you would be torn. Is there away that both can walk you down the aisle. In many ways they are both a "dad" to you.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-10 00:57:50 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have them both walk you down. But if you feel closer to your step dad and have a better relationship with him than with your own dad, have him do it. Don't worry about offending anyone, it is your day do what you like. Let your father know ahead of time. If he has a problem with it then he should have taken a more active role in your life. Good Luck and Congratulations on your wedding.
2006-09-10 08:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by kelsey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your step dad has raised you why not ask him, your dad should understand. Or you could do what i did and have your mother walk you do the isle. I know it's not very traditional but it worked. good luck which ever way you go. Just remember it's your day and you should make it one to remember
2006-09-10 08:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by sin27 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have seen a bride who had 2 dads took her down the isle. That was cool.
2006-09-10 08:07:33 · answer #4 · answered by alandicho 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't say if these two men in your life get along if they do you then could have the both of them as the second answer suggested however if they don't there are plenty of options to have them both play a big part in your day
Good Luck
2006-09-10 08:00:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had both of my Dads walk me. They both said " we do" when asked who gives this woman, they both raised my veil and kissed my cheek. I know how you feel. But don't ask both just on the chance of hurt feelings, do it because you love them both and you want them to.
2006-09-10 18:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by coopsmom 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have them both escort you down the aisle. I've seen it done at 2 weddings, and it's really nice.
2006-09-10 09:50:13 · answer #7 · answered by mcghankathy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its gota b yer real dad as blood is thicker than water and all that and if yer step dad is as good as you say then he will totally understand and you could always give him a special gift or something
2006-09-10 07:56:59 · answer #8 · answered by sleepwalker69 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'll go for ur step dad
2006-09-10 08:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by prabha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your real dad. he's ur dad by any means and he'll always be. he gave life to you and this is ur chance to repay him.
2006-09-10 08:06:16 · answer #10 · answered by gweneth lynn paltfeir 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋