Im a junior in high school. I am in a international school in Berlin Germany. Lots of Americans go to my school too. Anyways, last year this girl came to our school because of her moms work. She was only going to stay for one semester. When she was here ( almost a year ago) we kinda started to like each other. We both love music and plan to be proffesional musicians. I didnt like her for how she looked ( she had thick glasses) but I loved her for who she was. Towards the end of her time in berlin we decided to maybe go out together. I was not happy because of all of the contoversy in the school over it. People made fun of it so I decided to say no on the terms that she was leaving too soon. It worked and nothing happened. She kept on being really nice and giving me stuff and even making me uncomfortable and guilty. She left at christmas time last year. We kept email contact. Now we are falling in love with each other more than ever before. She wants me to come visit in NZ. Should I?
2006-09-10 00:53:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should visit her,if you don't wanna regret the remaining years of your life. There is no harm in giving a try, who knows where it might lead to. Follow your heart for a change...
2006-09-10 00:59:23 · answer #1 · answered by The Inquisitive 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not?
You seem to like her, and in NZ you wouldn't have to worry about your peers in school making fun.
Screw around with cheerleaders and dingbat models in Berlin to earn the cheers of your knuckleheaded buddies, but don't miss out on a person just because she wears glasses right now.
2006-09-10 00:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by Grendle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So she has thick glasses? So what! Never let the crowd dictate to you what or whom is acceptable. If you want to be a professional musician surely you have an artist's soul. It sounds like you two may share something very special. It seems to me the person having difficulty seeing clearly isn't the one with the thick glasses. Be her friend. Enjoy the relationship. Allow it to develop naturaly. Never again allow the crowd to dictate to you.
2006-09-10 04:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by YahooGuru2u 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never mind about your classmates, they don't live your life, you live your own life. go with your heart Sound like you have something for her, Becauses if there was no feeling there, why are you two email each other??????. Plue go see NZ, i heard that it is a nice place
2006-09-10 01:04:59 · answer #4 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea definitely..dont worry too much about what other people think of you dating her..what's more important is how u feel. and NZ is an awesome place! i should know. get out there and have an experience of a new kind.
2006-09-10 01:01:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care so much about what other people think?? Follow your heart who knows you may have already found your soul mate but you will never know if you dont give it a go!
2006-09-10 00:58:53 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Kazz♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is NZ New Zealand? If you can afford it....GO!
It is a the most beautiful place, you got a girl you love there....
go man go....
2006-09-10 01:02:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure give it a chance besides u get to visit a ne wplace even if it doesnt work out
2006-09-10 00:56:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well go. you are a very week person if what other think is so important. when u see her just take off her glasses
2006-09-10 01:00:20 · answer #9 · answered by amela c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u made a mistake there saying no...u were denying what could have been more...don't make any more regrets...they sure ain't nice to live with...
2006-09-10 00:58:03 · answer #10 · answered by A K 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋