2006-09-10 00:22:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would think so. But it doesn't have to be the center of the relationship. Hell, sex is supposed to be fun in the relationship. You both like it..
2006-09-10 00:26:42 · answer #1 · answered by lhm1968 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's still a man's world. And when it comes to women (especially), most men are motivated with sex and money. Until they mature, that is. And for some men, it takes a very long time for them to mature ... only for them to face "mid-life" crises, for the cycle to start all over again!
Bottom line: Men need challenges for them to conquest, and they are also ego motivated. That means that they need a sexy woman in their bed, and on their arm when they're out in public. They are territorial by nature, and are programmed to believe that their possessions measure their masculinity.
We all need to understand that in order for a relationship to work it needs to have a balance of all the aspects required to have a healthy and LONG TERM relationship. It needs trust, friendship, communication, understanding, patience, compromise, etc. ... etc. And eventually, unconditional love. Sex is merely "the topping on the cake". A relationship just based on sex will eventually get old. It's exciting and cozy/comfy at first ... but let's face it, after all, we all eventually have to get back to the real world!
2006-09-10 07:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by TCBgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is good for your well being, increases your bond, it's very powerful. If you are in a relationship with someone you love, why wouldn't you want it to be an important part of it. Now, if your 14 and in a relationship, I'd say that's much different, but for adults, for me, that kind of love/ and expression of affection is something I looked forward to for years.
2006-09-10 07:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it is important to show him that I want to be connected to him in body, mind and soul. I cannot make love with someone that I do not have deep feelings for. There is a difference between sex and making love. Sex to me is just an act to satisfy the sexual need, making love is special between 2 people who love each other and is sharing something special.
2006-09-10 07:36:32 · answer #4 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a mature stable relationship, It is apart of what the relationship binds your feelings. The expression of love passion and fun that this builds can only be really felt when you are one. If u need 2 ask then u are not in a relationship that is going to go far.
2006-09-10 07:30:12 · answer #5 · answered by grannygrancarrol 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because it reinforces the feeling that your partner still find you attractive, and reunites the couple in ways they were united at the beginning of a relationship.
If you stop having sex in a relationship, the partners begin to feel that the other doesn't find them attractive anymore, which breeds paranoia, and will probably cause one of the partners to start looking for another lover.
2006-09-10 07:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by savs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's more important than sex?
2006-09-10 07:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends. sex is part of the relationship process.
if you are not ready for sex, he should respect you. i feel that if one party does not want sex, he or she should not do it for the sake of getting the love of another party.
but if there is no love between the couple, sex becomes a commodity. if there is love between the couple, sex is an exchange of chemistry, feelinigs, bonding and all kinds.
2006-09-10 08:48:28 · answer #8 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya people think sex is important
2006-09-10 07:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by waysofdreams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because its the only thing that diferentiates a relationship from a friendship now a days
2006-09-10 07:24:10 · answer #10 · answered by knowitall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋