A friend of mine is pregnant with her third child. This will be the third child she's had with some random guy. Her other 2 children don't share a father. So, 3 babies by 3 different men and sitting on her butt using welfare to support these babies. I'm very opinionated abotu all of these things. She's 21, I'm 20. I have 2 babies, same father and we aren't on welfare. With that said, should I tell her my true feelings or keep my mouth shut? She doesn't even take care of the 2 she has now.
2006-09-09 12:17:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Diana, I KNOW her details...I've known this girl for 9 years. As far as the economy....it's not hard to find a job around here. I had gotten a good jobs within 2 weeks of applying....I didn't even have experience...
2006-09-09 15:00:38 · update #1
chic, I wouldn't have to tell "the" dad to shell out bucks, there are 3 dads in the picture...
2006-09-10 21:50:25 · update #2
I think that if you talk to her it might hurt her feelings. It seems as though she might have a self esteem problem. Kind of like she gets involved with different guys looking for the love that she might not have had as a girl growing up from her father. Perhaps you can talk to her and give constructive criticism and a few pointers on how she can get herself together to make a better life for her kids. Also I personally suggest BIRTH CONTROL OR ABSTINENCE! I mean if she has a daughter, her daughter will probably grow up and be like her mother. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree!
2006-09-09 13:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by nine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell your friend how you feel. I see this situation all the time where I work and it infuriates me to see able bodied young people living off the government while I, as a single mom, work my butt off and barely make it. I don't qualify for any govt. help, why should she?
2006-09-09 12:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by Robin N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm my maximum suitable acquaintances sure, yet even however i like the females I dangle out with, I wouldn't totally have confidence them. It sounds terrible yet i be attentive to for a reality that they now and back gossip approximately one yet another. the two way is say I even have some acquaintances who're the two common climate acquaintances and a few who're like sisters to me.
2016-09-30 12:46:11 · answer #3 · answered by erlebach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel but be sensitive and explain to her how important it is for her to get her life together for her children's sake maybe offer her some guidance on some things you do differently with your children that may encourage her to start doing the same
2006-09-09 12:24:03 · answer #4 · answered by LA BORIQUA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep your mouth shut about her having three babies. tell the dad he better shell out the bucks or you're suing!
2006-09-09 12:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you should midn ur own business you never know her situation with the economy thing and everything it might just hard for her to find work. believe sometimes you can look for work and even apply for jobs any they might want you . speaking from expereince
2006-09-09 14:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why not encourage her to place them for adoption. Especially the new baby.
2006-09-09 12:36:59 · answer #7 · answered by netlocmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im very outspoken so i would say something for the childrens sake if shes not even taking care of them
2006-09-09 12:30:00 · answer #8 · answered by Jessie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She will quickly become an ex-friend. But I agree with you.
2006-09-09 12:21:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would call child prtective services to have the evaluate her parenting
2006-09-09 12:21:38 · answer #10 · answered by sjeboyce 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋