What is the best way to tell someone you have General Herpes?

Question

I trust no one anymore and i am afraid they may tell everyone and talk about me.

Answer 1

I am very proud of you for wanting to be honest about such an important thing. However, you are right, you can not trust just anyone to share that with. The best thing to do is to avoid being sexually involved with anyone because then it will come to surface. If you get in the situation where you meet someone who really cares for you, let him get to know you as an individual first and if he starts falling in love with you and wants to be intimate, then that is where you would have to decide whether you should tell him. Only tell him if you feel the same way about him and you hope that he would understand. You can try hinting on the subject without actually telling him that you have it and see his response. That will help you to make a better decision on whether or not you should tell him. Maybe by that time, he would have already fallen in love with you that he might give you some support rather than just up and leave. Maybe then he will work with you by getting educated about it through a doctor and sort out how you can have a relationship. Sometimes true love overcome a lot of bad situations. I wish you all the best.

Answer 2

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Answer 4

I have herpes and what I do is when I see the relationship is becoming serious I sit down with the person and explain that before we can go any further I have to tell them something which is I have the herpes but I had to you because its only fair you know and decide how you feel about it. Telling them will gain trust in you and like I said if your worried about the word being spread don't tell unless you think its becoming serious and or you are going to engage in sexual activity.

Answer 5

you should tell them b4 you ever have sex with them but i know thats not always the best way. see u can pass herpes without having an outbreak and its best if they know b4 unlike me. my b/f waited over a year to tell me he had herpes. i thought i knew him when in fact i didnt. we r still together but it was hard for me to take for awhile. think about it this way herpes weeds out all the bad people that will never love you anyway. trust is a very important thing that be and my b/f r just getting back. if the person really loves you they will stay. but you should be careful of who u tell cuz a lot of people r stupid and dont know what herpes really is so they make fun of u. shows how smart they really r, huh? hope this helps.

Answer 6

Well if you re going to be intimate with them you must tell them for you would want the same in return right? Long story short i had a friend who had warts she told no one who she slept with about them and now 5 of the men know have them was that fair? Just be honest it the best policy when it comes to this... Good luck..

Answer 7

I have General Herpes.

Answer 8

never ever share this information with the other person because you don`t know how wil they react,may be they`ll gossip u and run away from u.the best way is to keep it within you until you get the right person you REALLY TRUST!!!

Answer 9

That's genital herpes and if you don't know what it is I would be inclined to wonder if you even have it in the first place!

Answer 10

honesty is alwas the best policy if you plan on having sex with a person and if you have this let them know befor you have sex that way they can either sad i dont want to get it or agree . on having sex with you this way they cant say you didnt tell them . my opion?