that caught an STD from a guy she just started dating, they had unprotected sex two days later and from then on out, do you think she has the right to be mad at his ex lover, no one knows whether it came form the ex or him?
2006-08-22 18:59:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
She can't be mad at his ex. The only person she can really be mad at is herself and him.
She should be upset at herself because she should have known better to have unprotected sex with him.
And she has the right to be mad at him because he gave her the STD, regardless of where he got it from. But, if she would have insisted he wore a condom then this all might have been prevented, so again it falls back to her.
I got 2 incurable STDs from a guy I had slept with ONE time over 5 years ago. I was pissed at the guy, but then again I could have prevented it all if I had insisted he wore a condom. So, when it all comes down, it was my fault, and I have accepted it.
The only person she can really blame is herself unfortunately. Hopefully your friend got a bacterial STD which can be cured rather than a viral STD, which can not be cured. Best wishes!
2006-08-25 07:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by Alli 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is equally to be blamed. Unprotected sex is a consious decision. And now that your friend has got a STD she cannot blame the guy. Thought it was not right on the part of the boyfriend if he knew that he had the disease and didnt tell her about it.
Important thing is take the treatment and learn from the mistake. Dont do it again.
2006-08-23 11:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by drsonali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should be mad all everyone involved, herself included for having unprotected sex from someone she just started dating! mad at the boyfriend if he knew he had it, and didn't tell her and that's what caused the std. and, of course the ex if she knew she had...so on, and so on.
but, the important thing to do now is to get treatment for this and learn from the experience!!!
2006-08-23 02:44:55 · answer #3 · answered by thundakat312 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has no rights to be mad at anyone except herself for being silly enough to have unprotected sex how does she know it wasn't her who gave it to her lover.
2006-08-23 12:06:38 · answer #4 · answered by angelle_76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she has a right to be mad in the first place. Unless she knows who gave the STD to her boyfriend, she has no right to be pointing fingers.
2006-08-23 02:03:07 · answer #5 · answered by Short and sweet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she should be mad at the boyfriend for giving it to her, but more over, she should be upset with herself for being willing to have unprotected sex!
2006-08-23 02:05:00 · answer #6 · answered by Dorothy K. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds crazy but if you a going to get in a new relationship get blood test done for stds first.check and see if the other person is safe we live in this day and age of dis honest people.
2006-08-23 07:46:57 · answer #7 · answered by nicole l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she has no right to be mad at any one but herself! She is the one who decided NOT to protect herself. Personal responsibility, she should try it.
2006-08-23 02:07:13 · answer #8 · answered by tooyoung2bagrannybabe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She has a right to be mad at herself.
2006-08-23 02:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by Ron Burgundy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well she shouldnt be mad at her bf... ...and how do u know that maybe he didnt know about the std.......then found out when he got tested....
2006-08-23 12:15:30 · answer #10 · answered by bobbie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋