i had protected sex but he wanted to ejaculate on my back a little got in the beging of my but crack is it possible some could have rolled in my booty hole i hope not because im starting to think my partner has hiv
2006-08-18 12:41:56 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
could some had really got in my vagina
2006-08-18 12:50:16 · update #1
we use condoms i dont think he knows after we did it he started to tell me all these times he had sex
2006-08-18 12:53:19 · update #2
He is your 'partner' and you don't know if he has HIV? Sheesh.
Just how long have you known him? So what is your question?
Should you be more careful? YES
Should you be more particular who you bop? YES
Should you wait a while and get to know someone before you drop your pants? YES
Could you get HIV from this experience? YES
Is it likely you did? Probably not but you have GOT TO BE MORE SELECTIVE AND CAREFUL. m
2006-08-18 12:51:14 · answer #1 · answered by Mache 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that it is possible for it to go all the way inside of your butt hole and none into the vagina. Why do you think your partner has HIV? Has he told you? Nevertheless if you are not in a commited relationship and even if you are always wear a condom. You just never know. But in order to get diseases your bodily fluids must make contact and the only way that this can happen is through actual intercourse not through rolling fluid.
2006-08-22 15:34:15 · answer #2 · answered by gm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth of the matter is that any exchange of body fluids - with the exception of large amounts of saliva or tears or sweat (we're talking gallons and gallons and gallons here) - it is possible to transfer the HIV virus. If there was an open wound on your skin or a microscopic tear in your anal or vaginal region - and the infected body fluids came in contact with it - it is definately possible that you were exposed. And for the record - you would have no idea that these tears were there - they are naturally and normally occuring - especially in the anal area.
The best course of action is to discuss your concerns with your partner and your doctor. Both of you need to get tested to ensure that if you did contract the virus that you don't pass it on to anyone else. If you are not comfortable talking with your partner about these kinds of things - or if he becomes upset and tries to blow your concerns off - then you really need to consider that the relationship is not one that you should continue.
Just becuase he has had a lot of sexual partners - doesn't mean that he necessarily has any kind of STD or HIV, however you are correct in your assumption that it does put him and you both into a high risk category.
People seem to forget that just because you have only slept with 1 or 2 people in your lifetime - if your partner has slept with 50 - so have you.
If your partner is unwilling to talk to you about your concerns maturely, you need to move on and find someone that cares about your health both mentally and physcially as much as you do.
And please remember - there is really no such thing as SAFE sex. Just less risky sex.
Best of Luck!
2006-08-18 21:05:33 · answer #3 · answered by Simplekindoflife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, unless you had an open wound on your ***. HIV is actually pretty hard to catch, and kind of rare these days. Don't get me wrong, protected sex is the best. If you are worried just go to a health clinic, but trust me, you should be fine. Maybe at 99.8% chance of being okay.
2006-08-18 19:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by Jackson675 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should re consider whether you want to be in this relationship.... If he let you go head and have sex with him, and ejaculate on you (he himself knows he has hiv) then how much do you really think he respects you? Get yourself checked for sexually transmitted infections, and ditch the guy your with you deserve more
2006-08-18 19:50:26 · answer #5 · answered by Happyworms 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you said, it does not sound likely, but if you are concerned get an HIV test. I think it takes about 9 weeks for the antibodies to show up. But you are probably OK.
2006-08-18 19:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by jxt299 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sperms have the ability to move, so there is a 96% possibility that some may have swam down into your vagina. Get a pregnancy test and be more careful next time!!
2006-08-18 19:47:35 · answer #7 · answered by Halle Berry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , it can be a worry.
Immaculate ejaculation is possible. The sperm lives for a very short time outside the body
2006-08-18 19:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible, but you should be safe. That is a very unlikely way to contract HIV. Don't worry.
2006-08-18 19:46:28 · answer #9 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably sit down and talk to him seriously about his past and HIV and other STD status. (even though you should have done that before having sex)
Whatever he says, you should still talk about it with your doctor. You can never be too safe.
2006-08-18 21:39:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋