i slept with a prostitute and think i have passed something on to my wife.?

Question

a few weeks ago i slept with a prostitute in amsterdam on a stag trip afterwards i felt alot of pain when i went to the toilet but it soon went away. my wife has just started to complain of serious pain when she goes to the toilet. i dont want her to know i was with a prostitute. what can i do??????

Answer 1

I guess you didn't get your money's worth if you just slept with her.Nice guy.Why don't you ask your wife this question?You already did something despicable.She'll probably find out now that you posted the question to the entire planet.

Answer 2

You've probably got gonorrhea. You could've at least used a condom with an AMSTERDAM PROSTITUTE. What were you thinking? Obviously your marriage isn't that important to you so don't worry about losing your wife, just tell her the truth. STD's can cause serious problem if left untreated. Hopefully you didn't pick up something else like AIDS or herpes.

Answer 3

1st of all, you need to tell your wife to get tested. You need to tell her. There are std's that harm a woman greatly more than they do men. So just because you stopped burning, doesnt mean she will. She will most likely divorce you, but her health is at risk.. She has been festering internally for weeks now... its time to tell her. Just have her get checked out.. it may just be a severe yeast infection which men can get it too from woman, if the doctor says its not an std, be thankful but if it is, then look out and get tested for everything else.. chances that that person had more that one std are high in Amsterdam.. Just tell her. You owe it too her for her health and safety.

Answer 4

Go to your physician, get tested for various STD, and get the medication. Usually comes in pill form. YOu have to get treated, and so does she. I haven't a clue on how you are going to slip this stuff into her food 3 or 4 times a day for up to three weeks, but she is going to find out that you gave her something. Good luck. If I were your wife, I'd leave you, dude. And If I stayed, my respect, admiration and passion for you would be down the toilet. ..... and those are the three things that make relationships work. (Along with trust, which she will have none left for you.....) damn, I sure hope the broad was worth it....... good luck.....

Answer 5

U nasty dog! U could have at least used a condom. U can have the decency to tell her so that she can be treated. It could be anything from gonnorhea to AIDS. U slept with a prostitute and thought it was ok not to use protection like shes not sleeping with hundreds of men. What if your wife were pregnant, your child would be at risk as well. Tell her, u owe her at least the truth. Even if she decides not to be with u anymore she'll be informed so that she wont infect others as well. Shame,shame,shame

Answer 6

Well, first of all, you should go get tested yourself.
Once you find out what it is that you have then you can sit your wife down and have a serious talk with her about it.

Just make sure you get checked out first and know the facts of what you may have, and what you may have given her.

It's very important you let her know because you don't know how it could affect her health. And she should probably take care of it ASAP.

Good luck ---and stay away from prostitutes!

Answer 7

Well you really screwed up the whole what she don't know won't hhurt her routine. You are going to get caught in this either way it goes. You need to tell her though, at least get her to go to the Dr. A woman can get seriously f*cked up with some of the STD's out there. They can cause sterility and other painful sideeffects. You don't have to tell her it was a prostitutue but you are going to have to tell ehr that you had sexual contact with someone else. You need to get yourself fixed up too. I know a lot of the people on here would probably say the opposite but your health is at risk too.

Answer 8

When she goes to the doctor and he tells her she has gonorrhea, which can only be contracted through sexual contact, she's going to find out what an idiot you were in Amsterdam. You're so worried about her finding out about a prostitute, but what about your wife's health moron? You want to render her incapable of having kids now, do ya? Get her to the doctor...

Answer 9

TELL HER THE TRUTH!

How could you do that to her? And by LIEING, you are acting as a Predatory Animal and an enemy to her. Dont you know that she could lose her Uterus if you dont tell her?! We women have all our female organs on the INSIDE of our bodies! Every STD can lead to SERIOUS health problems if they dont get treated as soon as possible.

Well, thats just GREAT..I guess you cant wait until your daughter's husband does the same thing to her. And when you visit your daughter in the hospital after her hysterectomy and she cries because she cant have any more kids because of HER HUSBAND--just know that its Karma.

Answer 10

well, if you dont tell her, she'll end up going to the gynecologist & he or she will tell her she's got an STD... and if she hasn't slept w/ anyone, then you are the obvious carrier.... so I'd fess up before a really embarrasing & bigger problem occurs.
I mean, if you love your wife, why would you let her suffer with an infection? If some of these STDs go untreated in women, they can cause women to become infertile & cause a lot of really serious problems that will be difficult and painful to treat.

You have to tell her so she can fix it before it becomes more serious.

Answer 11

Well if I were you I would see a Doctor and have a and test done then you are going to have to tell your wife because if you are infected she is infected and she is going to find out one way or the other. Trust me she has a feeling you gave her something already by the sounds of it. Your best chance of salvaging your relationship is to tell her and both get checked together. Your in trouble no matter which way you cut it and by letting this go on ,even more trouble if you choose not to come clean to her.