now question about the HIV and the guy about his nuts, i told him we shouldnt have sexanymore because i have?

Question

major feelings for him and he told me he doesnt want to ge tied down right this second although he does care for me, so now he is all shady, and hardly calls me, if at all, well for some odd reason which i dont know if it has anything to do with him, but my vagina feels swollen, well like the outside of it looks swollen, but also i have majoy itching problems like not on the outside but on the inside is by the clitoral area, also there is like every now and then, there is some white stuff that looks like wet toilet paper, that comes out of my crauch every now and then, but i want to know what that is, also i called thestd clinic and they told me THEY WILL NOT test me from HIV until another 6 months, so am i supposed to be going around worrying about my health, for another 6 months? what is the deal with that and is there somewhere i can go that will test me, all i can do is pray and be ashamed of myself for sleeping with someone protected who has HIV and sucking on his nuts. any answer

Answer 1

Sounds like you're overeacting because you're scared. It's ok. This is what you need to do.

1. Forget about this guy. He doesn't call since you called off having sex. What does that say...?

2. Get in contact with a different doctor as they understand how important it is to get early detection. Generally they do an initial test immediately (even though chances of detecting HIV in the first month or two is really low). Then they do a follow up test again at the 3 month period.

3. It sounds like all you have is a yeast infection.


The worst thing to do is try to diagnose yourself online as so many things are said etc and it can cause you stress and into thinking you're dieing etc.

Good luck babe.

Answer 2

Run to your nearest doctor, don't walk. Run. Like "Sophie...." said, it takes a while for HIV to show up in your system, but you can continue to get tested for it.

Now, don't be ashamed. But do, PLEASE, do take this as a lesson. Never, ever, sleep with anyone you don't know well enough and especially if you know he has HIV. What were you thinking, honey?

And I think the "sucking on his nuts" was a little overshare.

The best thing you can possibly do if you simply must have sex, go by condoms ontop of condoms.

Answer 3

Go to your doctor and ask for a test. They have to give you one if you request it. Also, hiv can show up as soon as 1 month after exposure, but your body can also wait up to 1 year to produce antibodies against the virus. So you should have a test now, again in 6 months, and again 1 year after the time you had unprotected sex. You may not have symptoms for years, but it will show up on a test now, or several months from now! Good luck.

Answer 4

you should call a gynecologist and tell them about your situation. What you have is referred to as cottage cheese discharge and it is a symptom of an std. As a matter of fact several stds have that symptom. As for HIV testing, you can have it done but it won't be accurate. The earliest it is normally detected is 3 months after you contract it. You should be tested at 3 months, 6 months, 1 year, and 2 year. If you did get it it could take as long as 1-2 years to show up.

Answer 5

The earliest symptoms of HIV infection occur while your body begins to form antibodies to the virus (known as seroconversion) between six weeks and three months after infection with the HIV virus. Those who do show early HIV symptoms will develop flu-like symptoms. This can include: fever, rash, muscles aches and swollen lymph nods and glands. However, for most people, the first symptoms of HIV will not be apparent. go to your health department they should test you...

Answer 6

Sounds like you have a yeast infection...go get it looked at and treated...and in the future, NEVER have sex with someone you know has a communicable disease, especially one that has no cure and a high death rate! *shakes head* Is an orgasm really worth your life???

Yeast infections have various causes...but they are miserable to experience (at least for me)...get treated and get some pride in yourself...learn to care about you so you don't make foolish decisions like that in the future...

Answer 7

most women wish that they had the heads up as to whether a potential partner was infected. please take care of your health before you nurish your sexual desires, I know that you think you love this guy, but sometimes the hear can lie. Be mindful of who you give yourself to. It seems as though this guy was just using you, and you should recognizr that you are worth more than that!

Answer 8

You should see a doctor right away!

Answer 9

your question so long that i lost in the jungle

Answer 10

sounds like genital warts