My bf n i have been going out for 2 years now, the problem i have wit him is that he is quiet selfish in bed. all that he cares about is him "coming", but what about me. i dont remember the last time i reached orgasm.
sometimes wen we dont have enough time he says something like "i will "come" quickly", so where does it leave me? i dont look 4ward to sex any more. i have kind of lost interest. he doesnt even get me horny enough, am just so tired.
wud this be a reason gud enough to break up with him?
only serious answers please.
2006-08-14 23:55:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeap.If he loved u he would care about u,about ur needs not just his!Have u ever discussed with him these problems?Communication is very important in a relationship.And if things between u aren't workin well,why should u waste ur precious time with him?Sex is also important in a relationship so...it does count!
2006-08-15 00:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by ic3g7rl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you should enjoy sex too. how selfish is that??
and yes, that's a good enough reason to break up.
you should say something to him. make oral sex for you mandatory. make him jump through some hoops. if he still half-asses it, lol, start shopping for a man with more skills and interest.
2006-08-15 00:02:36 · answer #2 · answered by ricky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...Find a man who gets off by making you ***...they are out there...why put up with lame sex when thats all men are good for that and taking out the garbage?
2006-08-15 00:03:49 · answer #3 · answered by budlowsbro420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS A SLEFISH JERK!!!!
i love to watch a woman orgasm... it is the greatest thing in the world... especially when you are the one getting her off...
you need to dump him and get someone less selfish...
or get yourself someone on the side to perform the proper duties for you???
2006-08-15 00:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you try some fun with him?
can you let him lick you ?
tell him a friend of yours told you that someone can keep his up for 25 min, so let him break the record to tell her so.
and always the second time takes more time , try that.
when he wakes up it can be standing for 10 min in full size , try it.
hope you all the best.
2006-08-15 00:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is the best reason to break up with a man.
2006-08-14 23:59:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes this is a good reason, kick him out and tell his mates he is crap in bed an hes got a little ****
2006-08-15 00:02:22 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the loser. You deserve better.
2006-08-18 01:10:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r here?
Why?
Just go and tell him about the breakup........
2006-08-15 00:02:06 · answer #9 · answered by Vineet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him
2006-08-15 00:59:13 · answer #10 · answered by MARS1951 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋