I love her very much.But she does not respect at all.She is sometimes good but she is voilentic and shouts on me at anything.she is older than me for 2 and half years.she lies to me and uses logic to defend herself anytime. what should i do.
2006-08-14 23:55:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get out of the relationship. Why would you subject yourself to this woman's disrespect for 9 years? You have allowed her to continue to treat you this way by staying with her. Walk away and never look back. Use this as a learning experience for your next relationship. Find someone you are more compatible with, don't try and rush into any relationship.
2006-08-15 00:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by goldengirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen up buddy. Quit being a man and not a little boy and dump her. The sooner, the better off you will be. No self respecting man should have to take it for a short period of time, much less nine years! Let's not get into the fact you were engaged for 9 years, be thankful you haven't made it official. There are other women in the sea. Nice, respectful women.
2006-08-15 00:04:24 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advise to you buddy, is get the hell out and run. I have had the same problem. I Thought it would get better once we were married. Women like that never change. I am going through divorce now after 12 years. If there is no respect, there is not much left hey. I have been verbally, mentally and physically abused in the process. There is something like an "abused husband", don't become one.
2006-08-15 00:20:52 · answer #3 · answered by Nomad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just wondering?? How is/was your relationship with your mother?
Curious? Is she on Meds? Should she be?
Why is she lying to you?
Trust is important in any relationship, Respect is earned.
You seek out therapy of any sort, and try to understand WHY you are allowing this person to CONTROL you.
Good luck.......been there....done that.
2006-08-15 01:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
move on!!! i cant believe it ,why have you let it go on this long? don't say cause i love her that is an excuse you need a solution so ill give you one find someone who appreciates you
2006-08-15 00:03:33 · answer #5 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U should act like men do!!
leave her !
u dont need such a woman!
a man needs to be respected!!! right? u gotta feel it!
dont go on!
2006-08-16 02:40:27 · answer #6 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dump her - nine years is nine years to long.
2006-08-15 00:10:06 · answer #7 · answered by silverman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some lifes are like that no one can help
2006-08-15 00:01:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
BE A MAN. AGE IS JUST NUMBERS.
2006-08-15 00:02:53 · answer #9 · answered by helpmegetaname 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋