she put down the proposal but still we have all type of physical relationships,she says that she loves noone else and only me but still when i propose she says no
2006-08-14 23:50:46 · 13 answers · asked by NIk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if she really loves you, she shouldnt see you like a wind up dildo...And maybe she is attracted to you physically but not emotionally, and also is afraid of being dependant as a wife thingy. But if both of you guys enjoy this physical relationship, who cares if u r married or not...
2006-08-14 23:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by AllsTar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you are looking for in a relationship. Seems she is ready for a physical relationship while you are ready for an emotional one. If you can understand the relationship is going go be based on sex then go fo it- if you want more.....then it's time to move on to someone that can fulfill both your emotional and sexual needs.
I think a lot is based on her reasoning for not accepting the proposal- find out why!
2006-08-14 23:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by awwwnry1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry 2 say but u need to move on without her. find a gal that care's about all of u... not just the physical part of u... unless you don't care & it doesn't bother you.. maybe she's not ready 2 commit to marriage right away.. but if u already proposed to her and she turned you down, then MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE...
2006-08-22 07:09:39 · answer #3 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is over-rated. But it is important for some people. If marriage is important to you and you are on a time line to get married (i.e. you want to start a family in the next 3 years), then I'd suggest you keep banging her but start looking for the right one that will marry you. And in my opinion it would be better to stop banging her when you find that right women for you, but everyone's different.
We will meet people that will be 90% match, but the 10% un-match impacts a critical area. Then you have to let that person go. Feels like you're throwing away something great, I know, but critical area is critical area, can't compromise on that.
2006-08-15 00:12:02 · answer #4 · answered by evil_clown_of_destruction 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is just not ready for that kind of commitment. If you love her allow her time. Time is the key word here and if is ment to be things will work out. Marriage is something that you should not take as a joke. This is something that is to last a lifetime.....
2006-08-22 15:51:09 · answer #5 · answered by Wookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue the physical relationship. Guys have nothing to lose. Meanwhile, look for another marriageable one behind her. Got to have Plan B always. Anyway it is not your fault as she is the one who opts out.
2006-08-20 21:00:45 · answer #6 · answered by Baby_Apocalypse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight, there's a girl who wants sex with you but not marriage? What IS the problem? You are probably the envy of most guys out there so just go with the flow and get it while you can.
2006-08-15 00:03:08 · answer #7 · answered by franken4110 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe she dont want to marry now
love u but marriage is a big matter, a lot of things to do, n' she isnt ready to do it
my advice: wait for her, if u two both actually love each other, someday she will agree
2006-08-15 00:01:41 · answer #8 · answered by Ivy Do 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the sex is good why mess with a good thing. Marriage is a farce anyway.
2006-08-14 23:56:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut off her access to the fun or she wont ever marry u,, she know she can get the milk for free so why buy the cow?
2006-08-22 13:55:08 · answer #10 · answered by kewl69charger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋