I don't want to hurt my bf's feelings or make him feel less of a man by talking to him. But it seems we have only two positions and one of them is 90% of the time me on top. Foreplay lasts maybe 5-10 minutes. It's not long enough to get too excited. I'm not sure how to talk to him without making him feel less of a man. It's a very sensitive subject for men. He always tells me that I'm the best he's been with. From what I see I can understand why he says that but I don't want to hurt him either. I have told him before to try different positions and he has said ok and I think it happened maybe one time. please help. Serious answers only please. Lets all be mature about ths thank you.
2006-08-14 23:47:53 · 13 answers · asked by kimwil24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You got some pretty good answers but you will hurt him more if you don't tell him, if you care about him meeting your needs try going to an adult bookstore, even barnes and noble or some store of that nature and look in the relationships section there are board games for adults and trust me when i tell you my wife was like your boyfriend and we now have a fantastic sex life, she goes and sets up the enviroment and let's say I was big on elektra ( daredevil) came home one day, kids gone and let's say.........Well you get the point. Have fun
2006-08-15 00:21:12 · answer #1 · answered by dwade1965 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to initiate some foreplay maybe with a sensual massage then swap for a while, then maybe drip some warm melted chocolate or whipped cream on each other and talk during sex so that you can change positions and make the love making last for a while longer. hope this helps.
2006-08-14 23:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by neo70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right it is a very touchy subject for men. I had the samw problem. I eventually realised that it was up to me to make the changes. Do as i do and tie him to the bed and then take it from there. you are in control and you can do whatever you want. Plus the whole tying up thing adds a bit of spice. Try it out
2006-08-14 23:56:26 · answer #3 · answered by toots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you see a good time just tell him how you feel-don't say he does it wrong-tell him that you would like him to do this or that and what turns you on when he does it. Don't let him stop foreplay until you are done- he likes you on top?Sit on his face until you are done. Be open and honest, kind and clear- best to get this out now before things get worse...
2006-08-14 23:58:43 · answer #4 · answered by budlowsbro420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the lead in bed one night adjust the lights walk up to him, undress him, control him.
If you want a lot of oral sit on him put your breasts in his mouth, then move up the bed and after a few minutes 69 him.
Work slowly on him stopping every couple of minutes so he doesn't *** then get off and get on all fours beside him and sexily say put it in.
You could also download the book the karma sutra and with a few drinks one night sit for a while in front of the computer looking at pictures together or some free porn videos to give him ideas
2006-08-14 23:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by stormnut_58 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well baby ,, you are a great woman who don`t need to hurt her man ,,
any way you can start in this move by making him accept a new things ,, like anal or any thing make you feel better..
just tell me that today you feel this any position you like ..
and see what he will tell you
love you...
love you , and don`t think there is more that this word...
love you , its the only word which can make you ...
love you , always and for ever i do...
love you , and i am happy to be with you ...
love you , even when you are so faraway from me ...
love you , in spite of this long distant..
love you , even when you not do ...
love you , even when you got bad thoughts about me ...
love you , even when you left me and bye you didn`t say ...
love you , and sure one day you will know ...
love you , that all what i can do ...
love you , and never to stop loving you ..
love you .............
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2006-08-15 00:01:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to talk it out.
But once in awhile you take control of the situation. If you are on top you are in a position of power and you can move around and position yourself and say come and take me.
2006-08-14 23:59:09 · answer #7 · answered by armyboy1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plenty of good advice here already. Main point is TAKE THE LEAD. I am sure he will happily follow along and you will both be happy.
You go girl!
2006-08-15 00:01:13 · answer #8 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is a really sensitive subject indeed. So, do not talk to him, but show him...
2006-08-14 23:54:49 · answer #9 · answered by Jalena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a hard one i left my ex because the sex just wasnt happening good luck
2006-08-15 00:15:58 · answer #10 · answered by nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋