does it hurt the girl ?
is it normal to ask your girlfriend to do it ?
is there anything you must do before or after ?
does it feel the same for both ?
any instructions for a first timer ?
2006-08-14 23:30:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm no expert, since I've only successfully done it once.
Yes it usually hurts the girl, but some girls are okay with it, and some like it (but not as many as you think). I heard Love Line once, Dr. Drew said even many gay couples don't do anal, becuase it just simply hurts for some people and they'll never get used to it.
I think it's normal for a couple to start exploring other sexual activities. Some start earlier in the relationship, some start later. When you have these kind of sexual exploration talks, that's when you can bring it up.
Use lot's of lube, it helps when the girl is relaxed (being drunk helps), and be in the mood (anything that gets her going, foreplay, watch a porn together, stick a finger back there during doggy style... etc), and let the girl be on top so she can control how fast/deep it goes and bail out when she needs to.
After, wash everything. I think it's gross even when I see a$$ to mouth on porn.
The one time it worked for me I was with a girl that was experienced and actually enjoyed it, so after I got her going and got an okay to proceed, I just hit her from behind and did my thing. I think that would have hurt a first timer. I've had other experiences with girls that were curious, those didn't work out becuase it hurt them. So we stopped and did other stuff; sex is only good when both party enjoy themselves.
2006-08-14 23:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by evil_clown_of_destruction 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you do it right and get her very relaxed and use plenty of lube. I think it 's normal, it's part of exploring sex with your partner.
I would use a condom.
I don't know about feeling the same but I have known some women that really like it and some that don't care for it very much but if you do it right it can be very enjoyable for both of you. I would start with getting her to *** in another way to help her relax and the start with a back rub and leg rub to help her relax and to get you both hot again and slowly start with your fingers and lube to help loosen her up before to try to enter her. Good luck and enjoy
2006-08-14 23:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by freeatlastboone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not rude to ask although wether you ask or not would depend on what sort of relationship you have. If you do it, it needs to be well lubricated and you shouldn't put it in all the way. Oh, and yeah, it's normal. For a female, it doesn't feel the same, to be honest, it feels a little like you're going to poo.
2006-08-14 23:36:31 · answer #3 · answered by Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes .but u have lube up real good an work into it dont just bumrush yo u'll kill her. I guess its normal to ask I personally dont care for it that much. before like i said make sure ur dik good an wet an her azz to an work in to slowly an make sure its good an lubed up. an i doubt it feels the same for both people have fun an use a condom
2006-08-14 23:42:28 · answer #4 · answered by blade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might be you had intercourse with someone who had anal warts? I do not believe they call it "Anal" warts due to the fact that of how you get them, they're called "Anal" warts due to the fact of where they are founded. Are trying asking your sex companions and they will have a secret to inform you.
2016-08-09 11:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women do it, but most don't.
Think about it, would you want something the size of your penis up your bum? Probably not!
There is no reason your girlfriend should feel any differently. Just because she is a woman, does not mean her *** is any more made for sex than yours.
2006-08-14 23:43:05 · answer #6 · answered by HP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah it doesn't hurt, some actually believe its better than the usual, and it feels quite the same.so many girls do it, so i don't think its unusual to ask a girl to do it. just a tip though, you might want to both have a thorough shower before hand ;)
2006-08-14 23:38:28 · answer #7 · answered by vincent_morfin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly you had sex with someone who had anal warts? i don't think of they call it "Anal" warts because of how you get them, they're referred to as "Anal" warts because of the position they're placed. try asking your sex companions and they could have a secret to allow you to recognize.
2016-11-25 02:01:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not nearly as common as T.V or the internet or "Girls Gone Wild" would make you think. Girls are very hesitant about it. Be happy with the front, it's better anyway (for you and her).
2006-08-14 23:34:50 · answer #9 · answered by Franko Unamerican 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.it does hurt
2.No it is not normal - but not forbidden
3 be hygenic
4.No.Males and females are diffrent and so is their feeling
5.yes tread slowly.
REMEMBER- Each part of body has it's own purpose.What you are about to do is not usual function of that part of body
2006-08-14 23:42:06 · answer #10 · answered by shribharatpshubh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋