Particularly for Long term relationships.
2006-08-14 23:25:29 · 28 answers · asked by Dan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being physically attracted to your partner is very important in a relationship. You wouldn't want to be with someone you found unattractive woud you?
However, everyone's opinion of what is good looking is different, and people can be attractive because of their personality and sense of humour, rather than just looks.
2006-08-14 23:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by Wafflebox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no looks are last on my list as far as i am concerned. looks fade and it totally shallow to make a decision on a potential mate based on anything in which they cant help or change....ie looks,. money, disability, race, religion i could go on.....and even if they could change why should they to benifit someone other than themselves.
i look for personality and a mental connection on some level. but i know guys and girls who only go out with the best looking of the lot........so shallow sorry for those of you ive just described
2006-08-14 23:37:10 · answer #2 · answered by rosa_govan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
Obviously its on the list somewhere. But once you know someone, you can see their true beauty.
I mean, if you had to choose between the boring but gorgeous guy, and the slightly non attractive guy with the 'perfect' personality. I'd choose the second. Anyone who disagrees... aren't worth being with.
2006-08-14 23:43:43 · answer #3 · answered by sparkle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it's sex appeal that counts and that I generally find has very little do with good looks. A man can be very sexy without being good looking...
Have you ever noticed that really good looking people will lose their attractiveness as they've nothing really to offer other than their face or their bodies...
Me... though... don't worry Zulu9... I have it all... LOL!
2006-08-14 23:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, as long as you are not terribly ugly good looks are only skin deep as it were. Its the person behind the face that matters. If you are clean and smell nice that does it for me!
2006-08-14 23:31:02 · answer #5 · answered by SengaYo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have never looked for one-that would be like shopping for a person.to me a relationship just happens. if i was single , looks would not be important ,as i am wise enough to realise what other qualties are worth while and that i am prepared to live with.
2006-08-14 23:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by saywot? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good looks are on the list but i have to feel like i can connect wit the girl. she has to be beautiful in an unique way. that sounds so gay but ya kno wot i mean
2006-08-14 23:29:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always found ugly people to be bitter and twisted. So i avoid like the plague. You don't have to be beautiful to be good looking, just ugly people do have a nasty bite
2006-08-14 23:30:44 · answer #8 · answered by thecharleslloyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good looks is not that important as being fat.
you can still have a relatively "not so gorgeous" look, but you can do something about gaining weight- to me, the weight is more important in a partner.
when one marry a good body, you want to keep it as long as possible, one can age, no need to get fat !
2006-08-15 00:29:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It used to be but as we get older I think we lower our standards and tend to look for a guy with good personality who treats us right and might settle down with us. Mind you it's one thing saying that and another doing it! I still tend to go out with d**kheads who treat me like c**p!!
2006-08-15 00:16:55 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ Miss Sausage ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋