I am a nice bloke (don't smoke, hardly drink, good job,kind, funny) so how come I have trouble getting a date?

Answer 1

MF you sounds like a nice bloke, don't smoke,hardly drink, good job, kind and funny. So.. would you please go on a date with me?

Answer 2

Wow, I can hardly believe how nasty people can be sometimes. I don't really know why you have problems getting a date. Seriously, maybe you have bad breath, bad body odor or speak foul language. Those would be big turn-offs to a lot of women. Women like men who are kind but firm. Gentle yet strong. Quiet yet able to speak intelligently. Women still like doors held open, chairs pulled out and help with their coats. They like manners. It would be very uncool if you got into a burping contest with your friends in front of your date. Or to talk about all the other women you've dated. Women don't like to hear about other women, generally. And if you're still living with Mom, consider moving into your own place. Women like to know that they have your whole attention, listening carefully to what they're talking about. They like it when you remember what they've said. Always put her needs first, treating her like the Queen Herself. Women don't get that alot. What they get is dinner, drinks, then off to his place to fight off his advances. No gallantry. No flowers. No friendship. Bottom line is, women like to be treated special, like she's the only one that matters. Now, since you sound like a nice bloke (from England, are ye?), think about these things and see if it just might make a difference for you. All of the qualities you listed are admirable qualities in a man. But, I would check on what I mentioned, plus your attitude. Sometimes too much attitude is too much. Too much attitude would be bragging about your strength, your hunting prowess, the way you speak about others, and so on. So, even though you seem like a nice bloke, if you have too much attitude, it might be turning the ladies off. <*)))><

Answer 3

I keep asking same question mate, only I'm a girl looking for good bloke. Hey, maybe we shd link up! Lol. Every1 tells me I looking in wrong places 2.

I think maybe some people like to pick "wrong dates" so they can moan abt it afterwards.

Sometimes people's expectations are 2 high or they find some1 that they like and then change the things they don't like abt them and end up changing the person for sum1 they dont like.

Good luck mate, hope you find someone!

Answer 4

Because they don't know that about you right up front. You're just another guy until you pique their interest. Trust me on this one: Want to change your social life? Buy a nice motorcycle! You won't even have to talk-- they'll ask you for rides. Then off you go into the night...

Just make sure you take the MSF Rider Course first! Once in NYC, I had three girls at a club ask me for a ride at the same time! I had to pick which one! (I took the sexy red-head.)

Answer 5

Maybe you are too eager and needy. You need to be a bit rough around the edges sometimes. Women dont always want a perfect bloke, we want to have to work at it. Stop being so nice and toughen up

Answer 6

Perhaps the same reason alot of other people are single. We just haven't met the right one yet. And a bloke is a man in austrailia.

Answer 7

Perhaps you need a social outlet, join a club or take up evening classes. I bet there is some girl out there looking for someone just like you.

Just because you don't drink or smoke it doesn't make you a geek at all, makes you normal.

Answer 8

well, if you can tell me why a nice lady who doesn't smoke, has a good job, is fun to be around, is honest and trustworthy and only drinks socially can't get a date then we'll both know why neither of us can get a date. i'm in the same boat as you are. only the guys i know are married, loosers or have no interest in me.

Answer 9

Cos woman don't believe there is such a person like you out there. Maybe you try to hard or your too silent. Let people know the real you somewhere there is that special person for you. Where are you. do you really exist?

Answer 10

Do you know how to dress well, impress women and make them feel special? Also you have to ask someone for a date. Or create a date without actually asking for one.