how do you know when someone is cheating on you?

Question

Or is going to cheat on you??? I really need to know he asked me to marry him when we were laying in bed...but what are the signs because I have seen a few red lights ... I really need to know.

all I need is one good answer...that;s it

thank you region I really appreciate your advice and everyone else's too
but region thank you

see I guess I am just paranoid or something because he doesn;t care if I play with his phone or look at his contacts he just lied about calling a female friend up north today I am a little upset

Answer 1

Being on the defensive in a fight about those matters are a good sign. Also him not letting you use his cellphone or read his phone bill. Perhaps even being denied to use his computer. When he comes back from some place and takes a shower or is overwhelmingly nice to you for some reason. Etc,etc.

Answer 2

How do you know? You don't. You either trust him or you do not.

Are there signs? Sure. But short of catching someone in the act of cheating all that you can rely upon is your own good judgment and common sense. Trust it.

If you have any doubt whatsoever, you need to address it before you make any commitment.

Answer 3

1.trying to avoid u.
2.making big issues of small things.
3.continously telling u to understand his problem.
4.not making propper eye contacts.
5.finally,putting u down & praising others in frount of u.
if all these things r going on then u better cheat him before he leaves u in tears.(he sure is cheating u)

Answer 4

* Out late
* Doing lots of overtime
* Phone turn off at odd hours
* Change in behavour
* Smells of perfume
God there's probably 100's of things, maybe trust your heart???

Answer 5

u noe someone is cheating on u when he suddenly treat u very good.cos they are guilty!

Answer 6

someone is cheating on you if he cant even look in your eyes when he was telling you something...

Answer 7

they usually have the upper hand...