2006-08-14 22:51:51 · 19 answers · asked by qky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, give yourself time to heal and redevelop your pride and self respect. Then gather your thoughts and take a serious look into yourself and determine who and what you are...your desires, your needs, your ambitions. Develop a plan and give yourself positive goals you can accomplish with or without needing someone to love you. Love your self first.
With these types of priorities you can grow and mature. With this you will be able to make better stronger decisions and have a more reliable command of your feelings.
Go get em tiger...Good luck! You deserve it.
2006-08-14 23:06:50 · answer #1 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slow, dont get to involved to quickly as rebound relationships hurt innocent people. Don't live in the past your ex hurt you move on you deserve better, not all people are the same. You had a bad experience a lesson in life a learning experience you will only become stronger. If you get in relationship someone talks about their ex get out quickly as it most likey wont work. Never compare your next partner with an ex its a big mistake everyone is unique in their own way the next may hurt you as well maybe not but we go thru life making mistakes an learning from them its a vicious circle, the game of life.
2006-08-14 22:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some time to learn about yourself... meet new people, but don't jump back into the dating scene... trust me... bad results, don't know why, just is.
Figure out how you can improve on yourself, raise up your confidence and self esteem so that even if in your next relationship you get hurt again, at least you can bounce back quicker.
2006-08-14 22:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by Loving Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take some time to be you, not just another 1/2...especially since you are hurt from the ex. you'll be more ready if you take some time to heal. also learn from your ex, take whatever happened and realize the signs for the next relationship.
2006-08-14 22:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by kristin h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always b prepared for the worst.hope for the better & get the best.
neither will this love b bad as the previous nor will it b too good.but still its in the way u take things.
2006-08-14 23:01:15 · answer #5 · answered by junky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good start might be gaining a better grasp of the English language. Who knows? It might prevent you from being "hurted" again.
2006-08-14 22:58:59 · answer #6 · answered by region91footballer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is hard to start a new relationship when the last one was bad. If have to learn to trust the new person without using the past relationship as a crutch....you will have to leave the past in the past where it belongs...
2006-08-14 22:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by pepenbuffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are still in pain it's too soon. play with porn and yourself and just give yourself time to heal. when you are finally ready don't bring the baggage. we are all snowflakes. none the same and we shouldn't live in the past. let the ***** be gone and enjoy your new life and someone great will eventually come along to compliment you. good luck.
2006-08-14 22:55:31 · answer #8 · answered by liketoplay420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just have an open mind don't compare them. get to know the new person for them and try not to think that it will be the same and she will hurt u too, don't put that wall up that alot of guys put up, it just ends up hurting everyone involved in the end.
2006-08-14 23:00:54 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you are over with your feelings from your last relatioship or you will never be able to move on. Also it's not fair to the new person you are dating if you are comming in with baggage.
Good Luck
2006-08-14 22:55:54 · answer #10 · answered by rick i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋