well i m always ignored from girls i m not bad looking i think soo my personality is good i think so. and i dont want to change my personality i feel very shy after girls I cant even talk properly after girls. i can talk regularly with my friends. but after girls i dont know what to talk? how to talk? i dont know y and moreover the girl i like busy in herself she dont even c me ,............. can anyone help me
2006-08-14 22:42:18 · 9 answers · asked by romeo007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
common all u have to do is pull yourself together. try and cover up ur shyness whenever u are with girls or around them. {i am also very shy but i am a girl i already broke up with two guys b'cos i cant look them in the eye , i tried all my possible best after these two painful break ups to click with another guy ,i cant just do it . so i went for advice from someone with experience and i am getting along now . but the shyness is still there .only someone who look at me closely will know that i am shy now, cos i now wear a bold face in public and always with my charm the CUTE SMILE.}
just dont give up and dont ever think anything is wrong with you. always try and forget u are shy and give a cute smile around girls, and u will see they will be attracted to u and challenge u themselves, and then u will be free to talk to any girl. as for ur girl friend forget about her dont even bother her, if she is interested in u she surely knows what to do. put yourself together for other girls , there are alot of them who want guys like u. i hope u follow my example and wont wait until u had several break ups like me {cos it's painful} b/4 u cheer up. {i know u can do it it is a matter of time and alot of self confidence, just forget u are shy and put on a cute smile anywhere,anytime and the right girl will come along.} GOOD LUCK.
2006-08-14 23:18:53 · answer #1 · answered by reality 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, Do not think that you have to become bitchy to be confident. I was not confident at all in year 9-10, I'm not too confident now but im getting better. There are a group of people, girls and boys, who always make horrible comments about me as well. Think up some answers that you can say back. Even if you do not say them, it will make you more confident because you have something that you can say if the need arises. Also, when they walk past you or make a comment, just smile at them. Once they stop making as many comments, start saying 'hi' to them, it will really freak them out, and they should stop.
2016-03-27 02:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first of all, girls like guys who have their own lives. it's sounds shallow but it's the truth. we like someone or are attracted to someone who doesn't really care if we're there. i'm not sure why but god damn it's the truth. you don't have to be mean at all. that won't work. just confident. about whatever. enjoy whatever it is your doing to the point like you could almost care less about what we want. i don't know if this is making sense. not cocky but confident and preoccupied is sexy as hell.
like if ur all hanging out in a group just chill with the guys and talk to them. let a girl scope you out and notice you for what you already have going on. if you are confident and not looking they will come to you. trust me. looks don't mean anything. personality rules above all else.
2006-08-14 22:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by liketoplay420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y r u shy to talk to girl? since u tink u r not bad looking,u shld be confident of yourself.do u have sisters? u can train ur talking with girls with her.it may help.cos girls noe what girl like to talk.so if u and the girls have common topic to talk,i tink u'll improve ur relationship with them and some may secretly like u.haha.
as for the girl which dun even noe u exist,maybe u could tell her best friend to tell her a msg if u are shy to talk to her.then she will notice u le and slowly develop ur friendship and eventually become lovers.haha.
2006-08-14 22:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by mrsdongwan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become involved in something you enjoy..volunteer in that interest...10:1 there will be a girl also involved....and then you can slowly talk about your interests and then move on from there..be yourself...you will come around when you feel comfortable...girls will always be around....as you grow up and get older..you will be ok one day....it is only natural...how old are you now?
2006-08-14 22:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by sleddinginthesnow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a bit difficult but first u have to have self confidence, i think u r working some where if so u will have a lot of chance to talk. do not be afraid, little by little u have to start talking with others first then u will get use.
2006-08-14 23:00:08 · answer #6 · answered by m.shahila m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i had a problem like that cos my apperance can be over powering cos i look like a thug of somthing, but the best way to get girls to notice you is to start talking to them, put urself out there.
2006-08-14 22:50:58 · answer #7 · answered by its all about me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to play right follow the dating rules read some dating tips and articles on this site
2006-08-14 22:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh dont be afraid u know im a girl i can be your sopporting friend
2006-08-14 22:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋