we've been together for almost three years we are happy.. but one day he left me saying he love someone else. after a month he's saying that all he did was wrong and he wants me back. what should i do?
2006-08-14 22:35:57 · 37 answers · asked by "baby" 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A good rule of thumb is - give people a second chance, but never a third. If he never made you doubt his attention before, you might give him another chance. But until he proves that he is not going to do it again, keep yourself from committing too much. If you want him back, that is.
If it is not the first time he hints at something like that... well, just forget him. He will get back to that way of doing things eventually. Once may really be a mistake. A second time... seems like a trend; let him find the girl he really loves, and you find somebody who loves you for sure.
2006-08-14 22:41:17 · answer #1 · answered by AlphaOne_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody makes mistake sometimes it's worst than you ever thought but that doesn't mean they are not worth for forgiveness and a chance to make a better change. God himself can forgive and why can't we? :). Anyway, sometimes people either man or woman will come to realized the value of someone when that someone is not already in our side. So therefore that person realized that you have a great value on him and he may never do the mistake again.
2006-08-14 23:00:43 · answer #2 · answered by archer_vallesfin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you still love him? or should i say do you trust him, will he leave again when someone else comes along? Is he just filling the gap between girls with you because he knows that you will take him back....and if he left after a three year relationship was there really love there to begin with...
2006-08-14 22:42:04 · answer #3 · answered by pepenbuffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a cheat - if you want to be hurt, sure take him back - or move on and find a man who loves you. He probably had an affair for a long time with this other woman before he moved out to be with her so - beware, just how much of that 3 years you were together was he faithful to you???
2006-08-14 22:41:37 · answer #4 · answered by kingpusskitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still Love him,and you know dep down in yo heart that he loves you;give him a second chance.But first of all,test hius patience.Make him work really hard to earn back your trust,and make sure you go for an HIV test before you have sex.You dont know where he has been or what he has done the past month or so.
2006-08-14 22:40:10 · answer #5 · answered by Mrknowitall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He left you because he loved someone else. He came back because she wasn't as great as you are or she didn't want him. Do you really want to be his runner-up girlfriend? That jerk deserves to be alone. What's to stop him from leaving you for someone else in the future? He had no problem doing it before. I'd never be able to trust him. You do not need to love him again. You need to tell him that it's great that he wants you back, but you, however, do not want him back.
2006-08-14 22:43:02 · answer #6 · answered by mytreacheryiseternal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion...since you asked is, you are a fool if you get back with him.
Obviously YOU were the one who was happy for the last three years or he wouldn't have left your @ss if was so damn happy.
Girl, I hate to be the one to tell you, but, He's just NOT that into you.
2006-08-14 22:41:36 · answer #7 · answered by Nicky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he dosnt deserve your love, not after what he did. It's risky, and a mistake to take him back, because once a man leaves, saying he loves someone else, the more lily it is for him to do it again. but the choice is yours, you dont need to love him, at the most, you can forgive him.
2006-08-14 22:40:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,youll only be heart broken again you shouldn't take him back 3 yrs and that didn't mean anything to him just like he walked out he wanna walk back in that easy dont do it you'r only 2nd choice the oher girl most likely broke up with him so he looking for a quick fix tell him no he hurt you one time and hes not doing it again good luck
2006-08-14 22:43:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. if he left you once and will do it again ,,
don`t need to him any more ,, believe me ,,
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love you , even when you are so faraway from me ...
love you , in spite of this long distant..
love you , even when you not do ...
love you , even when you got bad thoughts about me ...
love you , even when you left me and bye you didn`t say ...
love you , and sure one day you will know ...
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love you , and never to stop loving you ..
love you .............
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2006-08-14 22:43:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋