2006-08-14 22:28:29 · 15 answers · asked by IDRIS S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree that a little jealously is harmless. If you find that you are extremely jealous, it could be a sign of a real problem. Your girl will end up feeling smothered and eventually want out. No one wants to feel cut off from the opposite sex just because they're in a relationship.
2006-08-14 22:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called being over possessive you love her but your insecure. As much as you trust her there's that fear that some one else might take her from you. Try relax enjoy each others company being too jealous can ruin a relationship.Just remember your the lucky one she chose you. Jealousy is always there you just have to learn to control it, its nature, if you didn't get jealous you wouldnt have feelings.
2006-08-14 22:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a relationship with someone there has to be trust. Agirl can have guys that are just friends, the same as guys can have girls who are just friends. If you cannot trust her why are you in a relationship with her. Let it go or you will lose her. Let her know that you are having problems with the fact that she has male friends but that you are trying to work on it...
2006-08-14 22:35:10 · answer #3 · answered by pepenbuffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really natural for us guys to get really protective about our women.Ive had to go to anger management for a similar problem.I cant really control myself when someother guy is all over my woman.So,knowing that she cannot go all the way with those other guys,i always step away for a while;let her talk to the guys,and i come back when its over.It cant hurt unless you see it.
Later,i tell her to tell all those other guys to back off a little;and to let them know am in the picture.
2006-08-14 22:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by Mrknowitall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
human nature. just be careful how you deal with it on the outside. it's not healthy to be out of control with it of course but a little jealousy is completely harmless.
2006-08-14 22:32:07 · answer #5 · answered by liketoplay420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because u love her
it's normall to feel jelous but be sure to handle it well dont get possesive and start arguing with her over it if she isnt doing anything wrong u have nothing to worry about
2006-08-14 22:34:50 · answer #6 · answered by bluewatr111 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys are like that. when my gf told me to stop being over protective she said "ur not the only guy in my life but ur the only one that matters". and that helped me a lot.
2006-08-14 22:37:23 · answer #7 · answered by its all about me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you cant,i will be jealous too if i am you...but dont get carried away by that kind of feelings bcoz it may lead us to something serious...if you are jealous just for you and your girl to be alone and ask her about it...
2006-08-14 22:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by mrs_budd05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a form of hate. Obviously you don't value yourself enough, you don't think you deserve her.
2006-08-14 22:34:07 · answer #9 · answered by dixie_til_i_die 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound more like you don't trust her - you must start to, or you'll suffocate her.
2006-08-14 22:35:02 · answer #10 · answered by Say It Like You Mean It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋