I'm not being conceited! It has to be seen to be believed! I get attention from women when I'm out by myself, but when I'm with my girlfriend, it's out of control-- to the point my girlfriend was ready to slap a few of them. This happens often. I don't initiate it or flirt back with them, either. Is it the 'wanting what they can't have' thing? Why the extra allure when I'm out with her- SERIOUS ANSWERS, PLEASE.
2006-08-14 22:25:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All superb, intelligent, honest, very insightful replies! I understand now... Picking a 'Best Answer' will be hard. Thank you, all very much!
2006-08-14 23:02:35 · update #1
Well, besides being a Hottie, you are also "forbidden fruit", and
sometimes we wanna be Baaaaaaaaaaaad Girls!! lol
Plus your Girlfriend's presence is sort of a safety net--cause we know up front that we can flirt/tease without having to back it up.
2006-08-14 22:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I run into the same damn problem, and it is annoying. I couldn't get this much attention when I was single and looking for a woman, now that I have one, all the other women that wouldn't even give me the time of day are flirting with me like crazy. They do want what they can't have, and they are testing you, they are always testing you, whether they admit to it or not. I bet your woman calls up her friends and tells them to hit on you so she can see if you are loyal to her, I'm serious. She'll NEVER admit to it, but she does it. And don't be surprised if you don't get many women to answer this question, it's because they will NEVER tell their dirty little secrets.
2006-08-14 22:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because women probably see that you are worthy of having a girlfriend; therefore, good enough for them too. We all want what we can't have and sometimes temptation is too much. And possibly, they just want someone to show the affection you show your girl.
2006-08-14 22:31:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well this is hard question! I guess because they know that you are taken. You know that the what is forbidden is most tempting. I suggest you ignore them or tell them that you love you girlfriend strait in their faces. That way they will stop flirting with you (I think) and your girlfriend will love you even more!
2006-08-14 22:30:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
because if you are out with your girlfriend it shows that you must have somethign that makes you a good catch. Girls get jealous and it's like a territory thing...we are always trying to have the better male...just liek guys are always trying to get "the best female"
2006-08-14 22:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by guard/girl 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Someone else I know suggested that, if a guy is out on his own--it hints that he's single...and single means there must be some sort of defect, otherwise he'd be taken...
Therefore--the taken men are thought to be the 'better' ones out there...
Haha, silly and confusing, I know.
2006-08-14 22:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Its just a fun little game girls play and i have a feeling these girls who are flirting when youre with your girlfriend probably think they're hotter than her and are trying to make your gf feel like sh*t and signal to you "yeah this is what you could have.." kinda thing
2006-08-19 17:02:37 · answer #7 · answered by harmonize 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Some women do it just for the thrill and to see if they can get your attention while you are with your girlfriend
2006-08-20 04:41:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ha.........thats almost funny. Maybe unintentionally you have been giving signals to the ladies out there. or, some women just like to see if they are likeable despite seeing you attached. Kinda weird...but sadly true.
2006-08-14 22:31:05 · answer #9 · answered by springwhiteorchid 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's your Mojo...LOL...but seriously it is about wanting what you can't have...Although if I saw you with your girlfriend I wouldn't flirt with you I would have more respect for myself and your girlfriend and you.
2006-08-14 22:47:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋