Should I ask out one of my female co-workers for tonight or on Friday? One of them has a birthday today so I have been thinking about it a lot. She is 25 the same as me.
2006-08-14 22:22:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should ask yourself two questions first.
One, do you work with her closely in a team? If so, you may not want to ask her because if she rejects you it may be very awkward. If she is in a different department, go for it!
Secondly, do you really like her a lot? If you do, it may be worth asking just so you don't regret anything...but it may make your professional relationship somewhat strained as mentioned above if she says no. Always be prepared for the consequences. On the other hand, if she says yes..try to keep your dating on the down low..because people may gossip and you don't want that until you have been going out for awhile. Once you have been going out for awhile, then you can tell others.
Good luck.
2006-08-16 10:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by Mav17 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her,then go ahead and ask her out!But remember,if things really get out of hand;your business/work relationship will be ruined for life.But its still better to try than to let the chance go.That leaves no room for regret.
2006-08-14 22:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by Mrknowitall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are asking for trouble mixing business with pleasure. Office romances are too much of a drama risk for me.
2006-08-14 22:27:49 · answer #3 · answered by Bud B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont get it! tonight, yes coz its her birthday, then friday? so what if shes 25? rephrase ur question
2006-08-14 22:27:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask her...don't keep waiting and wondering what she will say...go for it! Ask her...its as easy as 1,2,3...tho it seems really hard its alot better if you just ask and you will be so relieved...so don't just stand there...get a move on!
2006-08-15 02:16:51 · answer #5 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure why not but remember you don't mix business with pleasure you don't want it to turn ugly and have to see them on a regular basis
2006-08-14 22:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u wish u can ask
2006-08-15 00:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah
2006-08-14 22:28:07 · answer #8 · answered by Inquirer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if u like her.
2006-08-14 22:32:32 · answer #9 · answered by its all about me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it!!! What do you have to lose? You don't want to always wonder, what if...
2006-08-14 22:36:09 · answer #10 · answered by sundevil21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋