2006-08-14 22:16:42 · 18 answers · asked by IDRIS S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, put simply and logically: love is a feeling, not a decision. You can still have feelings and make stupid decisions in life. What is to follow is just my babble trying to reinforce that statement.
I think so. People cheat for different reasons. People also love for different reasons.
You could say to love someone is to do nothing to hurt them, but that's just not always the way it is. This would also mean you would never make an unhealthy meal for your loved one IF YOU LOVED THEM. Likewise you can love your family, but if you do not take care of your own self (and possibly end up sick and dying) does that then mean that you don't actually love them? Do you see where I'm going with this? Love is not directly related to EVERY single decision you make. The cheater is an individual person with their own issues. It doesn't make cheating right, but it says that you can still love someone and be a moron in your own life.
I'm not saying cheating isn't a horrible thing to do to someone you love, it's just that stuff happens -people do stupid things for their own stupid reasons. Also included in this are mistakes.
Love is not a conscious decision but rather a feeling. You can have feelings and still be a bumbling, illogical moron that makes stupid choices in life.
2006-08-14 22:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by Sir Sandwich Slayer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. A divided heart is a cheaters heart. If someone truly loved someone, they would put their loved ones' feelings before their own and not desire to knowingly hurt them. Just read 1 Corinthians 13:4-13. This is known as the love chapter in the Bible. Nowhere does it say that love is cheating. Cheaters lie, and they steal something that doesn't belong to them, not giving honor where it's due. When the cheater is confronted, they always claim they still love you, but their heart is divided, so you only get a part of their heart, not all of it. If it's not 100%, it's not worth anything. <*)))><
2006-08-15 05:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by Sandylynn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have cheated on someone that I loved very much. It was no very smart but I loved him very much I just did something in the spur of the moment and put myself in a position that I shouldn't have and it happened . He never found out but i did love him
2006-08-15 05:22:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no, its love or no love simple and clear.This can also mean that the person is inlove with one and lusting the other. one of the two but not the two at the same time imposible
2006-08-15 05:40:42 · answer #4 · answered by pretoria_fish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
er, ithink it's possible to love someone and cheat on them - but not to be IN love with someone and cheat.
2006-08-15 05:20:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are in love with them how could you even consider cheating that is just so wrong
2006-08-15 14:48:25 · answer #6 · answered by Peace 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you psycho! Why don't you ask the person you're supposedly in love with this question and see what happens?
2006-08-15 05:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by Some Guy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way! if you love someone you would never do anything to hurt them and this includes cheating!
2006-08-15 05:19:01 · answer #8 · answered by guard/girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love that person, y cheat, u shouldn't when u could that person. stay wth ur partner dnt cheat, its not right
2006-08-15 05:20:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion no its not possible it is possible to love them but when you are in love you are never unfaithful since you only have eyes for that person
2006-08-15 05:22:15 · answer #10 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋