im askign this again! well first i want to thank you guys for reading this. hopefully i get an answer. i liked this girl since high school and wasnt able to ask her out because of my immaturity and for the fact that my family needed me more because of certain longtime illness. and now after 3 yrs i still cant get over her. she has a bf for 2 and a half years which i actually told him back in the day to go for her cauz i certainly couldnt.. didnt tell him my real reasons.. they are still going out.. even thought they broke up once and now back together because of her emotional attachment.
and now in college i still cannot get over her. i truely believe in one love in life.. could this be it and should i wait for it? or should i let it go and see what world has to offer? not to sound arrogant or anything but a lot of girls like me but i cant have emotional attachment with em' cauz i only think of her i really like this girl and i believe she would be perfect.i dont know what to. HELP!
2006-08-14 21:59:58 · 22 answers · asked by horsecharlie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm not saying give up on her, but she has a boyfriend she is emotionally attached to. which means she is not meant to be in your life in that way right now. i suggest you finish school, and if she is your soulmate then she will forever be the mate of your soul. remember it doesn't happen just because you want it to. in the meantime accomplish your goals and see where shes at by the time you're done, she may become the person you don't want. she may be mrs right but she could be miss right now!
2006-08-14 22:07:55 · answer #1 · answered by BREIZY2SHA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your waiting for her from wot u say. It sounds a lot like a situation i can relate to, but the way i think of it is that it just wasn't meant to be. I believe in fate and if something is meant to happen it would. Go out and have some fun, coz you could meet some1 just as great. She has a bf so don't interfere with their relationship. If they break up be there for her but don't come across desperate to go out with her coz thats not an attractive to girls. Just roll with what fate deals you and try not to trip on what could have been. You only live once!
2006-08-15 05:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by missy minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go...go out and have fun. If she's the one she'll come back to you...but at the moment it doesn't seem that she's meant to be with you...You never know what the future holds. The "one" for you maybe right in front of your face, but you can't see her because of this attachment to this other girl. You never know what is around the corner...
Good Luck
2006-08-15 05:05:55 · answer #3 · answered by vinyl_mad 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
did you see spider man, with peter parker in love with mary jane? Just get close to her, talk to her, over time let her know that you care and that she will have support if she decides to leave the guy she is with (a lot of girls won't leave the guy they are with til they've found someone else, so make sure you're the someone else).
2006-08-15 05:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you're acting like a teenagers still. You haven't changed much in all those years. She has a bf now and you said she is emotionally involved with him. I'd say wait and see what future brings, don't go and tell her now that you love her, cause she's already in love with smb. else. Just go out with other girls and somehow her relationship doesn't work and yours, too, approach her that time. Good luck.
2006-08-15 05:04:49 · answer #5 · answered by DreamGirl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well friend, first things love is all about giving it rather than expecting it, its great that you still love this girl, but she has a boyfriend, so i would suggest move ahead, do not stop spreading love, who knows there is someone waiting for you in the corner who will reciprocate your love, i only know love makes human wiser, no matter you are loved back or not, Keep smiling :)
2006-08-15 05:05:18 · answer #6 · answered by piratesinc 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
u should tell her how u feel and see how it turns out because if u dont you'll spend the rest of ur life wondering what could have been. If she rejects u then let go and move on. forget about her. Dont waste ur life thinking about her.
2006-08-15 05:14:29 · answer #7 · answered by T-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...A lot of girls like you, but not that one.
If she is so perfect for you, she'd be with you, or at the very least, not with him.
If you wait, you are wasting your life away. Date other people, maybe you will actually find someone who actually WANTS to be with you.
And - what if you did say you like her, and she says she's not interested. Would she still be perfect?
2006-08-15 05:05:54 · answer #8 · answered by byrne4u2002 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is soooo sweet. I am guessing that you have never told this girl about your feelings for her, and if that is true, you have to TELL HER. Tell her your reason for waiting and everything. Maybe it's not nice to the other guy, but it seems as if you are sure that she is your soulmate. If she doesn't respond positively, then you should try to see other girls and forget about her.
2006-08-15 05:06:40 · answer #9 · answered by trombonegirl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
look i kno this is really bad position i hav been thru this....for almost 2 times...but m sure u will surely find someone.if u still want to wait then make sure u don feel too bad. take things positively...remember theres some one waitin for u...jus open ur eyes....u will surely find some1 best luck
2006-08-15 05:28:53 · answer #10 · answered by squazi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋