My sexual confidence is so low because of this. My skin color is a medium caramel toffee like Beyonce's but my down there bits are completely fully dark almost literally black. Isn't it supposed to be pink? Are guys turned off by this?
2006-08-14 21:17:25 · 19 answers · asked by miss know it all 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it is not a turn off, it makes unique and sexy.
2006-08-14 21:19:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's actually a natural color range for "bits", especially in women with darker skin. The reason it looks pink on some people is because of the blood flow to the area, and if your skin has a good amount of surface melanin in it, that blood under the surface will make your skin look darker.
A decent, adult guy will not be turned off by it. Anyone who says something rude is a loser little boy, and you don't need him in your bed.
2006-08-15 04:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by Bronwen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're dark black on the inside parts too? Wow, that's kinda wild. Why do you think it's so ugly? People have all sorts of different things going on there. Your blood flow, immune system, etc etc all go crazy with different states of arrousal and that changes things. Your gear is supposed to change colors. Maybe you should check yourself out at these different points. Give you a better idea of what's going on maybe. In the meantime look at it that distinguishes you and makes you unique. I don't want to sound too much like a pig, but this "feature" sounds kinda cool to me and I think I'd be into it (sorry, that's a really bad pun) if that's the way my lady was. After that, maybe it helps to remember that us guys may think with our wangs but we don't see with them. I'm sure there is lots of other things that are beautiful about you if you can't think this is.
2006-08-15 04:33:22 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny Canuck 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard that it takes all sorts of people to make the world?
One man's meat is another man's poison. So what if it is literally black? Unless it is disease ridden, I don't see why you should feel sexually low. There will always be people who do not bother about the colour. What is important is the feeling.
2006-08-15 04:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the genital area is usually darker than the rest of your skin tone. with you being dark to begin with there really is nothing you can do. some guys may find it to be a turn off yet others might not.
2006-08-15 04:26:44 · answer #5 · answered by dragonfly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not to hurt your esteem, but to be honest iv always (cause im used to white girls) am intimidated and turned off by the black "down their". And the nipples...it just looks wrong on a girl, (not that black is wrong...but just cause im white im used to pink) but it seems a ton of guys like it...and im guessing black guys deffinetly like it cause its normal for a black girl
2006-08-15 04:41:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOO, it varies from person to person, not everybody's is supposed to be pink, were would the individually go. On the contrary I would be even more of a turn on.
2006-08-15 04:20:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Blacker the berry, sweeter the juice
2006-08-15 07:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your meat curtains aren't like really long and stinky, it should be ok.
I guess it isn't all pink in the middle like they say.....
2006-08-15 04:28:41 · answer #9 · answered by anseru 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds beautiful to me!
2006-08-15 05:06:50 · answer #10 · answered by Eat At The Y 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no1 really cares wot it luks like.as long as u want 2 use it the rite way
2006-08-15 04:22:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋