my mom is dating this guy and recently he came home drunk and was a total *** I told him he could go to hell and he assualted me. and he's always annoying the **** out of me I can't stand him.
2006-08-14 20:36:12 · 24 answers · asked by sora,donald,and goofy. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
jane k:there affair is affecting me I think I have some sort of say in it!
2006-08-14 20:42:47 · update #1
I'm a guy.
2006-08-14 21:12:55 · update #2
If he assaults you call the police. You need to talk to your mom and be honest....
2006-08-14 20:43:01 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom he "touches" you. Lol I'm just kidding. Although that just might work... Well, my mom has had plently of boyfriends that i could not stand and to get rid or them I scare the crap out of them by doing strange things such as staring at them non stop untill they say something like "what are you looking at?" reply back with a sarcastic answer or an insult. You can find great insults on the Internet, just google or yahoo search. Or you can set him up, like put one of your moms creadit cards in his wallet so he'll maybe accedentally use it and tell your mom about it. Or take a picture of him with another woman even if they are just friends. Or, my favorite, ask your mom "Mom, who was that ladie he was talking to yesterday?" Your mom: "What lady?" You: "Well, I picked up the phone thinking it was (INSERT FRIENDS NAME HERE) but he asnwerd it at the same time and I heard him say he was going to go danceing (Or something suspiscouse) with her." You know stuff like that. Make him think he's dating a lady with the anti-christ as a kid. =)
2006-08-15 03:47:55 · answer #2 · answered by Annastasia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it sounds like a job for "911." Secondly, let your Mom know that "you want her to be happy and you're glad she's not alone, and that you don't mean it personally or to hurt her, but that you really do not care the least bit" for her boyfriend. You can't mince or soften your words concerning your feelings about him, but it would be helpful if you let your Mom know that it is NOT because you're jealous or needy that you don't like him, but that he has a poor character and that it would be great if you never saw the guy again. She's got to respect that. Make it plain and clear.
2006-08-15 03:42:51 · answer #3 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not up to you to choose your mother's mate. While I don't think your mother should have a man living with her while she still has minor children, you won't be there that many more years so avoid the man as much as possible.
If you insist on making your opinion known to your mom I suggest you take the time to write her a letter. She'll have time to think about what you've written before speaking with you about your concerns. It'll be easier to avoid an angry confrontation that way.
2006-08-15 03:42:22 · answer #4 · answered by Hidden .38 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, be calm SO u can think much much better...second, try to manage things u want to tell ur mom, SO u wont offfend her feeling and u tell everything u wana tell, ... third, find a perfect time to discuss, asking her boyfriend is a must SO they know what ur feelings about them, SO they will find out that they actually have hurt a girl's delicate heart (you, i mean) ... fourth, try to be focus on what you are going to say when they're already in front of you, manage your anger/emotion, this is important .... the last, God bless you, my friend, .... believe in your God and your self, when there is a will, then there is a way... god luck!!
2006-08-15 03:55:58 · answer #5 · answered by DinDarling 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have an honest talk with her. She will listen better if you are respectful, truthful and do not curse. If she is not listening, you might tell her child welfare would do something about the assult problem for you if she can't. I would not even let their own father assult my kids!
2006-08-15 03:42:17 · answer #6 · answered by shepherd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He came home drunk?What a fine example he is setting for you.This is for your mom........Children live what they learn and learn what they live...Is this the future you want for your son?Do you want your kid to grow up to be a drunk who hassles young people?Also,if you dont get rid of this guy and put order into your home your son will lose all respect for you and his future will be set with lower expectations.
2006-08-15 04:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by nastynelly 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont tell her that u hate her boy friend tell her that she deserves better and u believe he is a bad influence tell her the problems ur havin with him
2006-08-15 03:42:21 · answer #8 · answered by RB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your mom picked someone that offensive and abusive to hook up with nothing you say to her will make a dent. She's got issues.
2006-08-15 03:43:40 · answer #9 · answered by jadeaaustin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be true to your mom tell her that you dont want her boyfriend, she will understand you because she is your mother the advantage of telling her what you really feel about her boyfriend is that she and her boyfriend can talk to you and ask you what are the things you hate about your mom's boyfriend , and what are the things to be settled gudluck!!
2006-08-15 03:42:21 · answer #10 · answered by aisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋