well i would like to try anal with my partner and i have some Q's bout it:
How do I prepare myself 4 it?
should i have him stick his fingers up my ass so i know wat it feels like?
should i try it with a dildo?
does it hurt?
should i use lube?
what brand?
and does it hurt like mad?
will i bleed?
does it stretch my ass hole?
what are the after effects?
what is the recommended length of time 4 doing it?
should I be scared?
should I feel full up there?
Will I enjoy it?
should he play with my boobs, vagina?
should I go to the toilet 1st?
is it ok to do it with my period?
should i need to wear a condom?
sorry bout all the Q's please answer all of them if you can OK?
2006-08-14 20:34:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
yes go to the bathroom first, it should be done with a condom, dont be scared, you will feel full when its being done. it can be done on your period but you still might leak. if hes really large it might hurt, use ky jelly, and go very slow, have him insert an inch and rest a bit, then slowly push forward as you have two ring muscles there that must relax, he can play with whatever gets you excited, yes it will stretch things but if you dont do it more than once or twice a month you will be ok, if it bleeds you are in trouble.it should not, now once he is in he should stroke slowly and just a little deeper each time but never force it, this is a very delicate area. he can relax the muscles first by using his fingers if you like but i dont recomend a dildo, they are too stiff , not like flesh, if anything hurts too much stop him, you have the right, and as far as how long, usually a guy gets off pretty quickly there but not too long, not more than five min if that long.
2006-08-14 20:46:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do I prepare myself 4 it? You and your partner should take your time and not try to rush into doing it.
should i have him stick his fingers up my *** so i know wat it feels like? Have him insert his lubricated fingers in one at a time to see if you like the feel of it. Make sure he washed his hands afterwards, or he could wear latex gloves. Make sure he uses lube.
should i try it with a dildo? You could. Again, make sure to use a lube before insertion.
does it hurt? It can if it's not done right. Also, it's not for everyone.
should i use lube? Absolutely!
what brand? A water-based brand like Liquid Silk. And he should wear a condom.
and does it hurt like mad? I can't tell you how it'll feel for you. It can.
will i bleed? It can happen if care isn't taken.
does it stretch my *** hole? No.
what are the after effects? Again, there can be some damage if a lot of care isn't taken, but if done carefully and slowly, not rushed, use lube, you should be alright.
what is the recommended length of time 4 doing it? There isn't any. Stop if you don't like it or if there's any discomfort or pain.
should I be scared? You might be. It's important to be comfortable and to trust your partner.
should I feel full up there? You might.
Will I enjoy it? With any luck, yes.
should he play with my boobs, vagina? If you'd like him to, but make sure if he's inserted his fingers into your anus that he has washed his hand thoroughly before his hands go anywhere near your vagina.
should I go to the toilet 1st? Yes.
is it ok to do it with my period? If you feel comfortable doing it while on your period.
should i need to wear a condom? Yes, yes, yes! Absolutely use a condom.
sorry bout all the Q's please answer all of them if you can OK? It's good to have questions. If you're not sure, then asking questions until you feel comfrtable enough to make a decision about whether you want to include anal sex in your sex life is a good thing.
2006-08-15 04:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by ccmonty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have him eat your ass before hand to loosen it up a little. he could also use a finger. Just relax and that makes it easier. it really doesnt hurt if you are relaxed. You might try it with lube. Wet Platinum works for me. You might bleed a little bit, but nothing to worry about. You would probably be fine. Muscles loosen and tense back up. You might get a little looser after alot, but one time wont hurt you. Until he comes. Dont worry, its fine. You might feel like you have to poop. He should be rubbing your clit at the time. Go to the bathroom first and clean up as much as possible. You dont want it on your sheets. You wont need to use a condom, but its easier for him to cleanup that way.
2006-08-15 03:41:31 · answer #3 · answered by Jason H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might enjoy it.. you never know unless you try...
Use LOTS of lube, I recommend Astro Glide.
It will probably hurt at first, especially if your partner is well enowed, but I'm told you can get used to it.
A condom is always a good idea, if you go from anal to vaginal, change condoms first!
Its OK to do during your period.
He should always give you some 'reach around' action. you will enjoy it more.
If you bleed alot stop.
Be careful and have fun.
2006-08-15 03:45:12 · answer #4 · answered by eggman 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well done correctly anal sex can feel absolutely fabulous. You need lots of lube. KY is good for that. Have him insert a finger slowly before he puts in his dick. Also,at first if you are lubed properly you might or might not tear. Just depends. Don't be scared. Stay relaxed.
2006-08-15 03:43:05 · answer #5 · answered by l3p3rkonz_lady 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES to all your questions. Sounds like u dont know anything about what you want to try... This is not like regular sex and If you dont research and prepare for this, you'll try it. It will be horrble for you & you'll never do it again...
There is a video you can buy made by Nina Hartly. (An old porn star)... Watch it with your boyfriend 5 times before you try it.
Trust me. By the way, I'm a guy & me & my girl still have not been able to have full anal sex yet.
2006-08-15 03:47:06 · answer #6 · answered by warscoob 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
anal virginity woooaaawwww. u have to go to the toilet 1st not to meet any bad surprise. your partner has to prepare your a s s h o l e by his tongue, this is the best way. becoz as u know a s s h o l e is not juicy as vagina. he has to start using his fingers with tongue. and he would understand your hole is ready or not for his d i c k. if its ready he has to put it into your a s s h o l e with small motions. after 5-6 motions he would be faster as vaginal sex. if u do these directions u ll see u ll fly. 1st time u have to be more careful. i have to say i wish i were him, i hope he ll do well. if any problem dont hesitate to contact with your anal professor on the msn: analhakan@hotmail.com
2006-08-15 03:54:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
lots of lube, empty ur bowels first, and relax, yes u can do it with ur period as u dont menstruate out ur bum,a condom is always good practice safe sex, yes be scared, every woman is diff u may enjoy it (wont know till u try it eh), any brand of lube will do as long as its not flavoured or glow in the dark would be my adviced, just get him to be gentle talk him through it, he should foreplay u first, not just wham it in ur butt - hope it all goes well P:S : yes if he wants to go from anal to vagina get him to wash his penis or change condoms as u can get infections such as urinary tract from it
2006-08-15 03:44:25 · answer #8 · answered by oz_gurl2005 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
finger are not so good a ragged finger nail can send you to the hospital quick..it can hurt.. toys are great and spare none when it comes to lube.. he should go slow with you.. some people do colonics before..if you have difficutlty with scat its a good idea. perfect to do when you can have vaginal sex..(the period thing).. skys the limit.. try everything do anything..and NO it won't stretch your hole out.. it heals..lol
2006-08-15 03:42:28 · answer #9 · answered by TimeWastersInc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use lots of lube, let him explore with finges first & relax!
Tell him to stick it in a little bit at a time.
2006-08-15 03:38:00 · answer #10 · answered by smeagol_4444 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋