Please tell me is kissing something you learn? I think I might be a bad kisser. I dont know how you know. I dont have the guts to ask someone i have kissed so how do you kiss someone? yes im talkin make out.
2006-08-14 20:31:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay...
1) Kiss them normally
2) kinda open your mouth a lil and clamp your lips around theirs...
3) Don't immediately stick your tounge in their mouths.. thats a turn off... instead:
4) Suck on one of their lips, either top or bottom.. I recommend the top, that way, it's a good transition for slipping your tounge in their mouth.
5) Twizzle your tounge around in their mouth. Flip it over, flick it foward, to the side, make your tounge dance...
6) While doing this, suck on their lips, this will give an automatic bobbing motion of your head...
Example: Say | was you and his head....watch how this happens...(the periods are for spacing only)
.................... | .......................|
... Above, you and he are looking in eachothers eyes, and smiling, blah blah blah....
........................... | ....|
...This is kissing them normally (Step 1).
........................... | |
This is you sucking on his lip.. right before slipping your tounge in his mouth...
.......................... |-|
..... This is you slipping your tounge in his mouth... when you do this, he will automatically slip his tounge in yours. Like below:
........................... |=|
........................|--|
... Directly above, after your tounge has committed it's first dance in his mouth, you will pull back your head gently by returning to either sucking on a lip or 2, or back to the regular kissing point (when you first gave him a lil bitty kiss) He will automatically follow. Also, he may do this same thing, and that is where you pull back gently for a quick second and then back again. (It's a bobbing motion-- at least that's what I think it looks like anyhow)...Note: It should only be maybe a 1/2 a second long before diving down his throat again...
Like this:
................... |=|
He will get the picture, and after that first 10 seconds, you'll have it down in no time. (By the way, the - and = signs are tounges if you haven't figured that out already).
Remember, before you end your perfect make out kiss, always kiss them normally at the end.. It's romantic that way, and if it's slobbery, it'll give you time to slurp up the saliva. Because, if you were to just take your tounge out of his mouth.. and he do the same with you-- and say that was the end of the kiss, it would end up messy-- and slobber would get everywhere...
Unless you are pulling some nasty love making-- that is uncalled for. That kinda stuff is meant for animals behind closed doors.
Likewise, your ending kiss should look like this:
....................| ...|
And that's that... How simple that was!!
Note: If your man makes it super juicy-- pull back.. That is gross. Imagine opening your mouth and having him spit in your mouth. That is just gross.
This goes for you too..
Hope I've helped... Good day....
--Rob :)~~(:
2006-08-14 23:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by stealth_n700ms 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think that kissing is something that is natural for some people. I think I am a sensual kisser, but my skills can use a little polishing. I usually take it nice and slow, but the last person I kissed reminded me that I can be a little more soft. He actually made me feel like the agressive one.
So maybe there is no right way. As long as you're both enjoying yourselves.
2006-08-14 20:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by denh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it is mostly just a fell thing, you just feel it, as far as good or bad, then you just arn't feeling it, so it is most likey bad,,but if you were kissing a differant person then it may be differant, so kiss a lot of people until you find one that you like to kiss, then you will feel it...or if you have some good friends that would help you out, just ask them if they will help you to learn to kiss, and then kiss away until u are a good kisser...
2006-08-14 20:37:07 · answer #3 · answered by wizzard 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anyone is born a good or bad kisser - kissing skill comes from experience, intuition, and your feelings for the person you are kissing.
It's hard (if not impossible) to really tell someone how to kiss, but if I had to give tips on it I would say: Always have fun with it, apply gentle pressure, remember to breathe through your nose, be delicate with your tongue, and again, have fun with it!
2006-08-14 20:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by Bwilkerson 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing kissing is an art form. if you wanna become a good kisser,do one thing,take softer fruits and eat them creatively,chew your food well,also when you speak be aware about your lip movements,these all exercises will make you a great kisser.Even after all these if things dont work out dont worry. iwas dating two women at a time...with one i was very comfortable kissing with another not at all,so your kissing experience will be different with different people.
2006-08-14 20:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by ashutosh s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everybody kisses differently. I prefer deep intense kisses and have kissed guys that are into that, but then there are guys that have been turned off cause they like soft gentle kissing. Go figure!
2006-08-14 20:34:48 · answer #6 · answered by hawt2trawt 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ooh, I hate it when it's all thick tongue. Don't do that :P When I was a 6th grader my girlfriends told me to go around in circles with your tongue and his. It gets less staged the more intensely you feel about this person and that's a good thing. But I guess I've always followed that guideline and it worked for me! Good luck!
2006-08-14 20:36:39 · answer #7 · answered by Ponderpink 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well for the most part no.. everyone kisses different.. some pointers..
dont use to much tounge..
dont have to much saliva in ur mouth
go slow! not fast..
I really wouldnt worry about it.. most guys are very understanding if u havent kissed to many people.. they will actualy prob enjoy it.. keep ur chin up and dont be so self concious!
good luck
2006-08-14 20:36:03 · answer #8 · answered by Juggernaut 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
umm, if you dont clank teeth or use too much tongue, then your fine. If you dont do either of those, your at least average. It's the extra things that make kissing really good.
2006-08-14 20:34:13 · answer #9 · answered by BMD 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
when you kisss someone just stop thinking that you are bad kisser ... just hold your partner & think his lips are icecrem & lick gently as if you are enjoying ice cream like kid do .. then think its a lolipop & suck his lips & toung .. thinks its ur flavour...then bite his lips gently as if you are cweing bubble gum .. i guess this will help you
2006-08-14 20:37:11 · answer #10 · answered by valintino_love 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋