my twin....23 y/o...i understand people have to move on. but the thought of her leaving and only getting to see her maybe 4 times a year kills me. i rarely cry n thinking of that tears me up. weve fought yea but its family and recently became real close. im scared to even go to drop her off because yea wed have to leave here there. this sounds stupid but i have DDR for the xbox, 2 dance mats, mine and hers. i cant play it now cause i have noone to compete against. and the little things get to me. calling her to see if she wants to go to the mall or something. didnt know how people dealt with the same happening or something close to it.
2006-08-14 20:23:06 · 4 answers · asked by J 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It is hard. I have 6 sisters and there was a time when ALL of them were scattered around the country. Now I'm gone and 4 of them are all back close to home. You'll just have to treasure those 4 times a year, write a lot of letters and emails and make a lot of phone calls. It does NOT sound stupid at all that the little things count. It is so sweet! Make it your 5 year plan to live close to her. It is great to have something like that to look forward to. I know I am planning to do that with some of my sisters. For real. Awww, feel better, honey!
2006-08-14 20:48:18 · answer #1 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sister just left today to go to college in miami and i live i chicago and I didn't say bye to her because i would have cried at school at school and shes 18 and im 17 and we used to fight alot but recently we also became closer too and i have the ddr also with the mat but only one mat but me and my sister used to play the karaoke game on xbox. but anyways i know how u feel cause its never really gonna be the same cause after she graduates shes probably gonna get married and have kids and she'll never have time
2006-08-17 10:31:03 · answer #2 · answered by b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went thru the same like ya..my elder sis actually 2 yrs older then me but we were very close..we shared all kinda secrets and look out for each other..we go shoppings together n all..
Now she is married and stays in german.and i m here in singapore.so much hav happened n i miss her terribly n she only comes over like once in 2 yrs..
its sad yeah but wat to do? life is such..
2006-08-14 20:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by devangel1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET GO OFF YOUR SISTER IN YOUR HEART, AS MUCH AS WE LOVE OUR SIBLINGS WE HAVE TO LET THEM GO AT SOME POINT IN TIME AND LIFE.
2006-08-14 20:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by kid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋