I have a male friend, from another country, that I've known for years. He once told me that American men seem to have two mistakes that they make over and over. He says that one is that no man should talk of a woman to another woman, it makes her feel devalued. The other is that he should treat her like an empress, but not as a subject would, as an emporer would treat his empress, as equals. What do you think?
2006-08-14 20:20:57 · 16 answers · asked by mightymite1957 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with him. Women really don't want to hear about other women. Another woman once told me that a man is supposed to make a woman happy, treat her like a queen...that is his job, in her words.
Your friend is right...american men think that women are at their disposal for their own pleasure; we are only there to make them happy - forget about our own needs.
Tell your friend he needs to come teach manhood classes for American men.
2006-08-14 20:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by femmenoire@sbcglobal.net 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your friend is a very intelligent person. If people, in general, treated each other well as an emperor or empress wouldn't the world be a better place. Have a good night!
2006-08-15 03:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by Sue F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a lady, but... Yeah, a guy should treat his girlfriend, fiance, wife as his ******' Queen!! If he can't do this, he's not a real man. I'm 20 btw, not some old wise guy.
2006-08-15 03:26:54 · answer #3 · answered by jared 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree with this. It sounds good and all but I'm sure in practice it would be annoying. Besides, it just sounds like the girl would get spoiled and that can't always be a good thing.
2006-08-15 03:31:08 · answer #4 · answered by bunny 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's right,woman should be treated like with respect.
2006-08-15 03:29:45 · answer #5 · answered by tatoo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is he single? can i get his #? JK. he seems like he knows how to treat a woman...keep this friend as close to you as possible, he is a great attribute to helping you with any male problems you may have.
2006-08-15 03:29:37 · answer #6 · answered by La Prieta 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I bet he ends up in the friend zone alot. I'm pro equal in a relationship.
2006-08-15 03:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
WOW he is right on the money. I HATE it when my boyfriend talks about other girls and sometimes he COMPARES me to them which makes me feel like total ****. I think your friend is VERY right
2006-08-15 03:26:44 · answer #8 · answered by theblonchic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think thats beautiful ... but on the other hand i think hes trying to tell you he likes you ... see what i can offer kind of thing ... you should ask him to be your emporer :p
2006-08-15 03:26:09 · answer #9 · answered by ash 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sound good 2 me alot of men have forgotten how 2 be nice, they're more worried about how many of us they can pimp, even though there r more of us then them!
2006-08-15 03:25:23 · answer #10 · answered by hellosexymoto 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋