Why im i single again?

Question

The last boyfriend i had was a cheater he was my 8th grade sweet heart but we break up over he said she said .9th grade he had a gurl but i said so what in we stared talkin again because he was tell me he love in care about me but I found out that he was cheating on me........ But now Im looking for good boy that dont lie a real man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NO LIE

Answer 1

Grade 8? Love? Listen sweetie. I know you've heard it b4 but it's true. You've got no idea what true love is yet, anything at this point is puppy dog love. I hate to tell you this but....if you think this is confusing, just wait until it gets truly real. The good news is, as you get older, it gets easier to figure out, (not really, but kinda sorta).

The same applies to all ages, a cheater is predestined to cheat again, unfortunately. So keep that in mind. In the meanwhile, enjoy being young for now, you'll have plenty of time for boys in the future.

You probably think I'm a grumpy old man giving you this advice but I'm not. Just been there and done that. Life is short, enjoy the early years. Men and boys will always be around later to give you no end of trouble. So, enjoy the simple things, your friends, your family and gushing over how cute Brad Pitt is at sleepovers.

The complexity of adulthood will come soon enough and you'll wish you could go back to simpler days.

Answer 2

a... lying is not always a bad thing. I wouldn't do anything stupid or irresponsible, but lying is sometimes a better option.

E.g. You come home from a bad day at work, and you are going out (you are rushing out the door, bar this question you have to run to make it to your event). You ask me (your bf in this scenario) how do i look. Do I
a) say good, even though you look like crap, knowing no one else cares so you enjoy the evening or
b) say you look like crap, so that you panic and hide yourself during the event so you can't enjoy it or even miss it to make yourself pretty again?

I think a) is a better option.
Hence lying can be a better situation in some cases. I don't condone cheating (in fact i think it is dispicable) but I think people who tell the truth all the time can cause just as much trouble as those who make lies all the time.

In regards to your question, you have already answered it.

Answer 3

Every woman in this world also dont like their own bf cheated on them, especially that guy s the person u love... its was very hurting... If u really wanted to find a guy who will not cheat on u, u have to be patient , dont straight away jump into a relationship although u didnt know him well... Just give yourself some times, and also the guy u love some times... May be the times arrived and you think both of u s suitable in relationship, then you consider to be with him... I agreed with u , its quite hard to find some guy who really love u and wont cheat on u...but just be patient and your real partner will appear eventually...Good Luck , and God bless u .. All the best

Answer 4

You just need to get good at reading people and when they're lying or being "shady". An indespensable skill IMO and one that would make things a lot easier on you.

Answer 5

ALWAYS BE WEARY OF SOMEONE WHO THROWS "I LOVE YOUS" AROUND LIKE THEY'RE NOTHING, LOVE IS MORE THAN A WORD IT'S AN ACTION, YOU SHOULD BE ABLE TO SEE IT, FEEL IT, AND APPRECIATE IT. BEING SINGLE IS NOT THE WORST THING IN THE WORLD, JUST HAVE FUN LOVE WILL COME LATER WHEN TWO MATURE PEOPLE ENJOY AND RESPECT IT.

Answer 6

How old are you? Stop worrying about boys. Maybe you should focus on school

Answer 7

Being single can be a whole bucket of fun. Enjoy it while you can.

Answer 8

Your question makes no sense.

Answer 9

Cause no one likes you

Answer 10

stop thinking about guys. focus on your studies. guys can wait. but studies can't.