There is this guy who I resently broke things off with. I told him that we'd be friends still. I still care about him...as a friend. But I don't LOVE him like that any longer. But he keeps doing all this crazy **** like showing up out of the blue and walking to my house.. and calling me 20-30 a day sometimes. Even going as far to calling my friends and waiting in the woods behind my house untill I got home. And I believe he was even trying to look into my window when a friend and I were in my room.
I just don't know what to do, or how exactly to handle things. I don't want to be a *****, but I can't handle him behaving like this ANY longer.
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks,
Jasmine
2006-08-14 19:57:53 · 12 answers · asked by allyouwishfour 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is nuts and possibly dangerous time to get a court order against him
2006-08-14 20:00:45 · answer #1 · answered by brinlarrr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Jasmine,
This is a very serious issue. You should tell your parents of the police. Get charges pressed on him. I hope he leave you alone after that then if not then gurl you got a crazy man on your hands who's crazy and will do practically anything so take my advice call the cops next time to get a restraint order against him if he's bugging you that much.
2006-08-14 20:20:18 · answer #2 · answered by Flygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is gonna be tuff. My sister went thru the same thing. You just have to lose all ties with him, friendship and all because everytime you even look at him he probably thinks that there is still hope. Just tell him that you just can't be friends and that you don't even want him to call. If you see him in the woods, scary, report it! You have to be strong, when my sister went thru this, she decided to say hi to him one day, and the cycle started up again. Some people are seriously mental and need help, you don't need that. You never know if he is liable to hurt you. good luck and be careful.
2006-08-14 20:05:50 · answer #3 · answered by jaded 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to get serious and call the cops. Obviously you can't be friends. Tell your parents if that's appropriate, other wise Consider a restraining order.
2006-08-14 20:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk around openly with another man. Not necessarily your next lover though. Works fine most of the time.
2006-08-14 20:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by groovusy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you REALLY do not want him to be a nuisance, you have to warn him that you will report his behaviour to the police. AND you must carry out your threat, if he continues to bother you. Be specific with what you don't want him to do when you threaten to report to the police or whoever who can take action against him.
2006-08-14 20:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police and get a report and a restring order on him
2006-08-14 20:01:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be firm and tell him he is freaking you out by stalking you.
If he shows no slow- call police and file complaint to have on file incase he is really a nut case.
2006-08-14 20:01:49 · answer #8 · answered by wutta-croc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds real crazy if it's really bothering you get a restraining order on him . better safe than sorry
2006-08-14 20:02:47 · answer #9 · answered by Adrian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police....
2006-08-14 20:18:24 · answer #10 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋