What is a good way to get girls to notice me?

Question

I am 16 330lbs 6'0 very athletic i bike 12mi every day i am a lifeguard and a pizza cook i never had a girlfriend what am i doing worng

Answer 1

It may not be your look but you attitude towards women and if you respect them or not.

Like......when a girl walks by and you say something like that's a fine looking a$$ you got there....that is not respecting a girl and most of the time you usually end up driving girls away.

Also if when you are around girls you talk only about you all the time or the majority of the time...that's not improving your chances either.

Also have you even asked a girl out....usually girls are the ones waiting to be asked they do not go and ask the boy.

Look according to your description of yourself, you already have girls noticing you.....but you just can't get any of them to be more attracted to just a hot body and someone who can cook pizza instead of ordering delivery.

Unlike guys for MOST girls it is more than just the looks.....sometimes it is not even that. My cousin has a friend dating a guy who looks like someone who's been eating fast food all his life, yet she must see something special in him, like something special he may do just for her.

Yet I would say just stop trying to get girls to notice you, stop making that your obsession. Instead focus on what you like and don't like, and what you like to do, (hobbies....etc.) If you like biking and you come across a girl that likes biking too....then voila the beginning of something. If her favorite food is pizza and she could eat it every day then hey! If she likes horseback riding instead of biking then whatever....but she may like how you laugh (or something like that) then there you go.

You can't get someone to like you unless you yourself are someone. A person with personality, quirks, likes and dislikes, whatever. Just be yourself and do what you like keep girls somewhere in the middle of your mind. And if you find someone you like just ask them out either seriously (giflfriend) or casually ( a movie with friends, or pool, or whatever)

Answer 2

Talk to them man. Let's face it if you wait for "the right girl" to come along and notice you you'll probably be like 70 when and if it happens and all the viagra in the world ain't gonna pick that up. Sometimes you have to be the one who makes the move. Trust me girls are just as scared as we guys are.

Answer 3

Make eye contact, smile, say "hi," pay her a nice compliment. Just be yourself. It sounds like you have lots of opportunities to meet girls, so maybe be a little more outgoing. I mean, you're a lifeguard for crying out loud! ;-)

Answer 4

Let me assure you, at 330lbs., you're getting noticed. Drop 120lbs. and you'll get the right kind of notice.

While your'e working on that, get to Leykis 101. The Professor will teach you the ways of women.

Answer 5

yo dude the reeeeeeeely best way 4 dat is 2do somethin reeeely stupid (but coool ).do u know how to stunt freestyle on a bike. if u can do it near a place full of girlz they will get 2 like u .trust me..................... i ve had experience

Answer 6

First: Learn proper English.

Than: Be Yourself. And never
be ashamed of
Yourself... it works. Trust me...

Answer 7

well first :
* dont act cool and tink ur the best in the world
*smile at her and make eye contact
*start as friends and worke ur way up

Jess i am 14
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Answer 8

If you're 330 then you might have a problem. Either you're incredibly fat or... well either way you're going to be fat because no one has more than ~280lbs of muscle on them.

If you want girls to notice you then go up and talk to them. They won't have a choice then... duh.

Answer 9

just be yourselve. i think you should excrise more beacuse most girls likd guy are who are tiny. i am sorry if i hurt your feeling but that ture.

Answer 10

maybe u'r not putting ur self out the right way