If a guy says he isn't looking for sex and he just wants to be with you why does he break up with you and then tell you he still loves you and is confused. If he loved you wouldnt he want to be with you? We try to be friends but it always leads to boyfriend girlfriend again. How do you get him to be straight with you on everything?
2006-08-14 19:43:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just move on, who needs a confused guy hanging around....
2006-08-14 20:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For 1) How old are you? Don't bust me for criticizing, because, I'm not all about that. But I just want to get a point across.
No one should be having sex unless they are financially stable and mentally/ physically mature enough to endure the consiquences.
Who says all relationships have to have sex? Especially involving kids/ teens, etc... Sex is meant for love. This guy doesn't sound like he loves you.
....Sounds like he wants you to believe he loves you so that he can get sex from you, when he's tired of getting sex from others, when you guys are "broken up."
Sounds like this guy, when you 2 are broken up, goes out and gets laid... he feels free to do as he wishes. He knows you love him/ care for him so much, that you will take him back whenever he decides to come back.
That my friend, is not love. That is not even close to love. That is cruel intentions, and it needs to stop!
If I were you, I'd leave... I wouldn't even talk to him. That just pisses me off thinking about it! Because to me, that makes me believe that when he's tired of having sex with all his other little girlfriends, he'll come back to you-- He'll purposely tell you that you guys are JUST friends, as to get the point across later after he's tired of having sex with you, so that you can't blame him for leaving.
That's if he's got sex on the brain. Guys tell girls they "love" them all the time to get sex. It's one of the most cruelest <------ if that's even a word, things anybody could do. That's lying-- however, if your a virgin-- which I took seriously, than it would be something you'd never forget.
I think he wants a friends with benefits thing. Maybe he's being pressured by his guy friends.. who knows. I've had experience with friends w/ benefits and it never worked out.
Someone always got hurt during the process-- above all else, it really screws up a friendship. None the less, there is always drama, and countless arguments.
Take the easy route out while you can.
--Rob
2006-08-14 23:50:30 · answer #2 · answered by stealth_n700ms 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to get him to be straight first. He sounds confused alright and you can't see the writing on the wall.
2006-08-14 19:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by serendipity 2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some one who wants sex with you and knows his own mind
2006-08-14 19:56:03 · answer #4 · answered by clutch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't all guys want to have sex? can u blame him?
2006-08-14 19:47:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋